I think everyone here doesnt plan on running game forever. Eventually you want to settle down. What are the things you guys look for in a girl to know its time?

In my own personal situation right now, I've been in several long term relationships. I've recently gotten much better with women, not crazy success but had a few lays this summer. Recently met this girl that I really like, beautiful, smart, sweet, funny, down to earth, good job, nice place, etc. Not to mention she is WAY into me.

I'm scared as shit to get into another relationship out of fear of it taking another several years off my 20s. I havnt had a ton of new experience, part of me wants to keep "sewing my oats" as the say, but that old romantic part of me just wants to make her mine. Should I? Or am I just having a little of what they call "oneitis?"

Does she do nice things for you like:

1. Cook you meals.
2. Run errands for you.
3. Loan you money even when you don't need it.
4. Takes care of you when you're sick.
5. Takes an effort to please you most of the time.

If you answered yes to all of the above, there's nothing wrong with making her a girlfriend.

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Bingo.

Add things like do your laundry and clean up your house for you... Thats real girlfriend potential. She should also suck your dick like it is going to fall off tomorrow.

To all of the above, I would add "can you trust her?"
For me that is the most important part, and it was the factor that tipped the scales when I decided to assume a commited relationship with my gf instead of just fucking her.
I don't need a girl that cleans my house, I can get an illegal imigrant do do that for a few quid. Also, I don't need her to cook, I'm a single guy who has lived successfully of frozen food for years. What I do need is a girl that is my best friend and supports me whenever I need. If you have that, go for it.

And, above all, forget what I said and what everyone else said. This is the kind of stuff we can't advise you on. Just think about it and follow your gut.

Does she give good head?
Does she sleep naked?
Is she sexually adventurous?

I had the nicest girl not too long ago who happened to be a HB9 and she did all of what was mentioned before, great woman all around and very respectful but the sex was terrible. Completely ruined it and she was just too innocent to be adventurous.

Sex is top of the list in my opinion.

Here's the science showing the reason why women do nice things for men (starts at around 23:50) in the Youtube video below:

[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nIQqCDbgiAM[/youtube]

Nice things can be anything like a great blow job, gifts, free services, running errands, financial or moral support, personal loans, free groceries, free tuition fees, and/or free food. You can basically trust a woman when she consistently and voluntarily does nice things for you without you obliging her to do these things.

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I would add ... look deep inside yourself ... what do YOU WANT in life? The fact you are coming on here and asking the question makes me think perhaps you don't want to settle down at the moment as you were just getting into PU. Take a risk dude .. just say to her .. look this is where I'm at, I want to meet people including new women, but I like you so lets just keep things relaxed .. have an open relationship ... see where that takes you dude.