I go in a place for skating everyday so there is a donut shop and one day i approach this girl.. we talk and smile etc.. 2 days later she told me that after she close the shop she wanna spend some time with me.. and to wait her 10 min and she need to go upstairs to the bar a bit to her work colleges ok so i wait.. like 20 min and nothing no msg either and i go after 20 min and after like an hour i'm home and she still didnt

any msg that she will delay or she wont come or a recheck... so i txt her ... and she told me that she forgot and she is really sorry... next day we go out and we talk we hug and touch... kișes but not on the mouth she refuse after that she text me and tell me that was a great night and that

I'm going to have to be a bit rude but that's the truth: She's playing you and trying to take control of you.

You need to stay away a bit and throw in some negs from time to time, don't let her lead you.
For example, you can tell her that you can catch a cup of coffee after she's done, then just like 20 minutes before finishing her job, tell her that your friends called and they need to go pubbing that night and you're really sorry because one of them has to travel and you have to be there for him. This would drive her crazy because you're doing the same thing she did to you. After that, ask here when she's free and go for that cup of coffee or any other hot/cold drink. Don't make it long and act as if you are in a hurry. This should show her that you have a lot of things on mind and you're barely able to make time for her.

After that, congratulations, you've made your value higher. Now you have to take her out and end up in your apartment after building enough trust between you and her.