text communiucation with FBs between meetings



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PostPosted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 1:12 pm 
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If my goal is a once a week FB with a girl, after I've slept with her the first time, how do you handle texting/communicating in the time bridge between meetings? In my experience with LTRs and mLTRs, I generally stay in touch and build comfort with a once a day message or so. With just an FB, is it better not to do that, and should the texts always just be about scheduling booty calls or should other flirting/fun/sharing be included?


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 27, 2013 2:12 pm 
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what I do with mine...

text WAY less.

Most the time its only when you want to get laid, so that would be once a week for you, just say on the weekends.

If she also understands and complies with this arrangement then thats all good.

it also doesn't hurt to send some flirty texts when you feel like it even if it doesnt lead to sex. You dont have to only text when you want sex.

I just wouldnt push at any sort of regular small talk over text, theres no need for it in these arrangements.

hope thats some sort of help

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As a general rule, I text to answer direct questions and to handle logistics (where/when are we meeting next). That's it. I ignore nearly all other texts.

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Hey dude


I usually discuss these things will a girl that I have as a fuck buddy, but if you're not comfortable with this yet then just keep the convo's light. No more than 5 mins on the phone once or twice a week. And yes the end of the convo's should involve you setting up a next day to meet.

Basically, don't really go out with them in public anywhere (as I'm sure you don't want to anyway), be good in bed, and keep the conversation to a minimum.

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Thanks for all the good answers guys!


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