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so this is for all of you out there asking how to get over that girl who crushed you, here is my simple story.
My gf of 4 years broke up with me last year, about 14 months ago. I was 20, and we had been dating since i was 16. She was everything to me and i legitimately thought we would be together for our entire lives. She was the only girl i had ever had sex with.
Out of the blue she broke up with me, and i was devastated. I had been out of the game for so long, i was terrible with chicks despite being a good looking guy. a month after we broke up i found this website and pua in general and tried to better myself--let me note thats all pua is to me, bettering yourself. its not about the lines, openers, routines, etc, picking up women is about being yourself, loving who you are and what you do and radiating those feelings and being confident in yourself--i digress. Anyway, over the past year (i was a junior in college those past 2 semesters) i banged a lot of girls, 14 in about 7 or 8 months. But i still missed my ex, desperately. i would wake up in the morning next to some girls and just be like fuck, i miss my girl. Fast forward to halfway through the summer and im still not over this girl, despite not talking to her and fucking numerous other girls. I start hooking up with this girl and have been for the past month and spent all day with her earlier this week, and she is really awesome. I finally dont give a fuck about my ex at all, i am too busy thinking about my new girl. She pales in comparison, shes finally out of my thoughts. Let me add that i wasnt obsessing over my ex, crying over her, and not going out because of it, but she was still on my mind and every girl i got with i had to compare to her. But no more. So moral of the story i guess is that GFTOW (go fuck ten other women) really is the key to getting over oneitis. Of course ten is just a number, it could be 3, it could be 30, but just get out there. Great, awesome, sexy, fun girls are all over the place, the one who broke your heart is not the best thing to ever grace the world.
You did what you were suppose too and it sounds like it ended good for you. Getting over a girl you've been with for awhile takes time no matter how many girls you smash.
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