I want to share with you guys a true story of why inner game is sosososo important.

Inner game is basically who you are and once you start reframing yourself into a PUA, that shit sticks with you. It's part of you.

I just got out of a 2-year relationship, gained about 20-30lbs since then and I don't even live up to make own standards of being a PUA again. I thought I needed to work out first before I could be at my tip top confidence and cockiness.

BUT, had to do a presentation in class today and my old PUA swag came out even though I wasnt trying. I was confident and totally preoccupied with other things but a 8.5-9HB eho i never talked to at all came up to me after class and said "do you think there's less people in the class?".

She even said "bye" as I was walking away after I responded. Then I realized not even a minute after that this chick was into me and wanted to open me. I'm kinda mad I was so mentally preoccupied with other things but it just goes to show your inner game doesn't change. It does when you're in a relationship but when you're back to being single anything you've learned in the past all subconciosusly comes back to you.

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Become your own man, stop waiting for the sky to shit out gold.

True, it does come back to you as if it's second nature but this may not be the same for others out there. I was in a similar situation. Lots of IOIs from multiple women, party invites every night, the man everyone wanted to hang out with and everyone including their mother wanted a piece of. I got into a relationship and lost it all, mentality changed completely and all it took was to surround myself in a social setting and a quick read over past material to get back into it.

Two weeks back in and i'm way too ahead of myself. Women are stopping me on the street, i'm getting VIP SPAM and i'm outplaying mates who normally wouldn't lose a woman. Got a bunch of n-closes, k-closes and a few f-closes that have come my way.

Also, because of Inner Game your Outer Game should start to reflect that. Already i've begun to lose the weight I put on in my relationship, i'm smiling a lot more and i'm building up muscle. I'm doing weights again because i'm happy to, not because I have to. I think because of this it's more important to get good inner game first, makes outer game much easier to achieve when you're just happy in general.