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PostPosted: Tue Aug 20, 2013 4:22 am 
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Discovered the game 10 days ago.. Posted an intro here.

Anyways, i met a girl online 2 weeks ago and we have been texting, aquired a half nakid pic off her early on. She really wants to hang out so we lined up disk golf for tomorro, me a friend of mine, and her.
Lots of iois in the texting like asking to hang even at her place to watch a movie, what im up to, the pic. I played pretty well takin a couple days off texting here and there.
So basically im wondering what stage to start in, in person. It will be first time meeting her in person
I have great ideas for kino (she said she's terrible at disking) ill help her learn.. Also my buddy and I can really get the laughter factor goin too.


So maybe just give me a simple lineup of steps to take.


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 20, 2013 10:19 am 
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Hey man

What ever happpen to the offer you received to go to her place and watch a movie? Why did that not go through?

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 20, 2013 1:36 pm 
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I told her I was busy that day.

I haven't been on a date in awhile so im nervous, that's why I am going to disk first. But after that I'll be good for her place I just need to seal the deal diskin


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I'm not sure that was such a good idea. This girl seemed gamed to just getting laid; you could hit her place and bring a bottle of wine for the nerves.

Also, you're bringing your friend on the first date. You sure about that?

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 20, 2013 3:06 pm 
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I agree with what Joey said. She probably is down for sex, why mess around with a date, and bringing other guys makes it double trouble. You are just asking to screw this up, in fact, it sounds like you are trying to avoid sex with her, you are doing the exact opposite of everything I would do. You don't need to make yourself go through extra hoops to get pussy.


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Quote:
Discovered the game 10 days ago.. Posted an intro here.

Anyways, i met a girl online 2 weeks ago and we have been texting, aquired a half nakid pic off her early on. She really wants to hang out so we lined up disk golf for tomorro, me a friend of mine, and her.
Lots of iois in the texting like asking to hang even at her place to watch a movie, what im up to, the pic. I played pretty well takin a couple days off texting here and there.
So basically im wondering what stage to start in, in person. It will be first time meeting her in person
I have great ideas for kino (she said she's terrible at disking) ill help her learn.. Also my buddy and I can really get the laughter factor goin too.


So maybe just give me a simple lineup of steps to take.
Ugh, you need to improve on your confidence BIG TIME. That is your problem. YOu were texting back and forth forever because you were afraid of getting rejected. And then when you had it lined up, like, holy shit man, she invited you over on a first date? You have to capitalize on that!! You need to also cancel a date with you and your friend that is fucking retarded. Cancel it, and then get back to the movie if you haven't already come off as too insecure for that invitation to hold.

EDIT: Sorry for the tough love man, but you need it. Your step here is CANCEL CANCEL CANCEL ANY DATE THAT HAS YOUR FRIEND TAGGING ALONG. Arrange something at night, ideally the movie at her place but if not just something at night (drinks or whatever) near her place or your place. Then concentrate on making eye contact and touching her when you get any opportunity (for example, walking into the bar, put your hand on the small of her back)

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Your right I chickend out on the movie date at first. This was my first girl attempt in a long time so im rusty. I've banged 8 girls so I am capeable of doing the deed. Self improvement is the goal. I

Well the disk golf date happend :/


the three of us talked and joked. Did some kino touching her tatoo in which she put her hand on mine. Couldn't really tell if she liked me or not but I did try to dhv and attract.. At the end my bud asked are you guys goin hone now and she quickly said yes, not sure if that means anything.. Then I got outa the car so she could move seat up and get out of the back. Then I squeezed her shoulder twice and said have a good one, she looked very happy smiled and gave me a halfway hug and said you have a good one too. She was more shy at first part of date and fairly open by end.

im ready to bang her now

So whay do you guys think? My next move is what, do I text her now, call, or just wait?


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Text her this


" So are you trying to watch Nick @ Nite with me or what? lol "

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PostPosted: Tue Aug 20, 2013 11:31 pm 
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Im booked up till tomorrow tho, should I try somethin tomorro


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PostPosted: Tue Aug 20, 2013 11:57 pm 
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Im booked up till tomorrow tho, should I try somethin tomorro

Then text her that tomorrow.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 22, 2013 5:31 am 
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Yesterday late night convo.. Can't figure out if she likes me and howd I do?

Me wats up im finally home

Her: Nice im watchinga movie w gen

Me: Oh when will it be my turn lol

Her: Lol for what?

Me: To watch a movie with you

Her: oh lol. Idk

Me: do u want to

Her: im sure we could

Me: Ya only if u want to lol

Her: lol

Me: do u

Her: I dont see why not

Me: Uh ok,sounds swell

Her: lol

Me: R u smokin the goody tonight

Her No? Lol

Me Okie dokie.. :]

Her lol why

Me Just checkin up on ya. Stay outa trouble lol

Her Lol i usually do

Me key word usually

Her Lol yep. Cant expect me to behave all the time

Me It's good to get a little naughty from time to time

Me I don't drink or do drugs but there's other legal fun naughty u can do lol

Her like wat

Me Like foolin around in the bedroom, or wherever lol

Me Sexual activity is naughty and fun who would deny that lmao

Her Yeah.... Idk havent really done anything since me n my ex of 2 years broke up

Me how long

month almost 2

Me u over him now

Her yea but its complicated

Me how so

Her Just dealing with everything

me Oh ok ya makes sense. Alright well it's gettin late im crashin

Next mornin

Me good mornin .10am

Me Im fishing then water ski knee board and tubin whoop! .. 1pm

Her nice

Me Hell ya perfect day catchin um nonstop!

Her nice


Stopped textin her after the gay one word shit.

No more messages since help me out lol


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 22, 2013 11:22 am 
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I wish you would of just listened to me dude.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 22, 2013 11:39 am 
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Way too much texting.

"Her: oh lol. Idk

Me: do u want to"

Never ask a girl about what she wants to do etc. Tell her what you will be doing and she can have a chance to say yes or no.

So don't ask her whether she wants to watch a movie or not. Question is. Do you ? Do what you want, she will follow. When she said yes, btw you should have given her an exact date, and tell her, good night busy day. That's it.

I suggest you wait a little then re-open with some actual plans.


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PostPosted: Thu Aug 22, 2013 11:50 am 
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One of the first things you need to work on is self-confidence. I read a book yesterday about psychology. It had nothing to do with pua, but there was a chapter about confidence. The author told that there's only one way to get confident at something and that's by getting master experience. If you want to be good at something, it's knowledge and then do it 10,000 times. I'm taking that literally. My first mission is to do 1000 approaches in less than one year. I recommend you do the same.


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soon as you meet her, tease her in a friendly way. You don't have to do this but it is a good technique to set the immediate tone that this will be a sexual meeting.

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