She did mention twice that she had a "man".

She works at this store and I walked in and talked to her for quite some time.. 20 minutes or so. She gave me a couple of IOI's and were dead focused on my eyes and didn't mind that I teased her every now and then. Didn't number close though due to the fact that she mentioned a couple of times about her man.

What would you have done? First time day gaming a girl who has a boyfriend and I didn't want to stand around thinking of a reason to get her number (I'm very new to gaming as you can see by my number of posts)

Would you have went for some boyfriend destroyer tactic or just leave it? I work right next to the mall so I usually go there during lunch break for food and occasionally trying to approach to get over aa.

Thanks!

Focus your energy on higher % plays. Trying to attract someone with a boyfriend when you are just starting day game, especially one who works at a store so she is basically paid to be nice to you and give you IOIs is a challenge that you don't want to be your primary focus.

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Agreed with the Fury.


However, if you must scratch that itch, go for the facebook and see what her relationship status is like and take it from there.

hot chicks always have a "man" in her pocket and sometimes pretend to tell other people that she has boyfriend, as a shit test. Not all. but some will put out, happened to me a few times, read between the lines and go for the gut feeling to see if there is attraction behind her eye's, you will develop the sixth sense when you have been involved in this for years.

Or just give her your phone number on a piece of paper or something, if she texts you, she probably interested.

Goodluck.

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No boyfriend destroyer is necessary.


As a newbie you have to constantly go out and get used to rejection. This will build the thickness of your skin so you can handle these things with laughter later on in the future. Right now you are afraid of rejection and the more and more you fear it the more likely it is to happen. Guys that don't give two fucks about rejection don't get rejected half as much as guys who do. A certain level of confidence comes along with it. So go on out and take your bruises.

I'd so far to say; go back to that very store and ask her for her number. And ask with confidence. Have you phone in hand as if you are anticipating her to say yes.

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Ah okay, I get it... what would you think would be the best way in asking for her number?

And thanks everyone for commenting. If it's a shit test or not I guess it doesn't matter, main focus is that I get conversation going with a hb.

Go back and get the number as said above, you could be surprised at the result. I have done something similar before with a hired gun. If she truly has a boyfriend, then there isn't a lot you can do.