Has your intimate relationships initially been based on skill alone. i.e do you think without putting in some effort or learning some pua or self development skills or techniques you wouldn't have gotten anywhere with women? And I do mean moreso without any social situations because being in a social circle means there already is some level of comfort and enough so to make the skills less relevant compared to the social situation. So if you didn't know the girl from a bar of soap you skill could've gotten her.

I ask for 2 reasons. 1 because one of my main goals is to be able to get an abundance of convenience in my love life (sounds selfish, but I don't expect much from a girl and give way more than I should) but mainly because I lack social and work/school situations I could've used to somewhere with a woman (although I never wanted to easy way and always wanted to be able to get the girls I see that i'm attracted to as opposed to just the ones within my social circle) and I wanna see if anyone is in the same boat, how they dealt with it and achieved their goal.

Not the easiest question in the world to answer I know, but it would be super duper awesome if I could get an answer from someone here:) and thanks in advance.

Have I not started PUA I would surely still be a virgin. I have never got lucky. Perhaps once, but back then I already had a gf and I rejected that girl, she was also very weird anyway despite being hot.

But back on topic, definitely yes. But I'm not really talking about pick-up routines, those have never ever got me any result. I didn't have to be told that inner-game is the most important, I have learned that the hard way throughout my journey.

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Honestly no. People like me for who I am - funny, friendly and caring.

However if I had not delved into game then I would not have developed enough confidence for not only my love love but what has also permeated my social and work spheres...

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I'd say a lot of it is inner game.

Genuinely being the man of a woman's dreams is a lot better than pretending.