| Last night, I went out with a few friends, and a couple more outsiders to my social circle. There were three guys and two girls. Everyone else, besides me works at the same business.
The night was pretty slow to start, we all sat around and drank a few beers (I don't drink though.)
One of the girls in my group was a HB9 at least, the other was HB8. Early in the night, one of the guys at work was working HB9 a little bit, making some physical contact, he ended up sitting next to her ,and I couldn't really get into position when we were seated. Then we went to a close by club and he continued it, but not kissing, and a little grinding on the dance floor.
Right when we got in the club, I started approaching my butt off, and I ended up finding myself in a very long, fun, and physical conversation with the hottest girl at the club, SHB10. She had a fiance, and was engaged, but I made serious social proof. I was twirling her around dancing, get her to laugh her ass off, she had a great time. Other girls started coming up near me, giving me proximity alerts all over the place. It was a lot of fun, even though this girl was getting married.
I noticed HB9 was seeming more interested in me, but I was running out of time. The club closed only a little bit after I got done talking with SHB10. HB9 gave me a few indicators of interest, along with HB8. I wasn't really able to escalate with either of them given the logistics at this point, but I did make very light kino.
My question is, do I have a legitimate shot with this girl after I developed social proof? Or does the other guy have a better chance because he made more physical contact ( he had virtually zero social proof)?
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