| Basically i've just started university and just become interested in girls really. Im still a virgin etc but it hasn't and still doesn't bother me as I have never really felt a connection with anyone. Im a pretty confident guy but im very new to this and I certainly do get AA. I am confident with people I know but i've failed to approach when i've been going out to pull girls. I knew this would happen though as i've only been reading PUA stuff for the past few weeks so im very new to all of this.
I study psychology so im aware of most of the concepts which are discussed in videos etc, also I don't want to be a complete "player" like maybe some of the guys on here probably are. I just want to learn more and become more experienced at approaches etc.
Basically I hang around in clubs, like most students. We don't go to bars, we go to clubs because in all honesty pick up artists say how you need to approach sets, I think this scenario requires something new. Im at university, the girls are probably easier to pull than anywhere else, basically im sure when i have the confidence I could go up to a girl and say something like "you look stunning" and it would work 5/10 times rather than 1/25 times it would anywhere else in the world. The tactics i've read about need to be adapted for this to work. I will now explain why.
I've seen a lot of mystery, he is a personal favourite of mine but basically all PUA's say it's best to approach sets.
Here is my problem, the music in clubs in the UK at least is VERY loud to say the least, there is no way I would be able to approach a set of people and start talking to them. From what I have seen a lot of pulling goes on on the dancefloor, which isn't bad for me, im not a good dancer but im certainly not bad. Other times people might be sitting down or standing at the bar, this is where most of the talking goes on. Basically you have to shout down somebodies ear to talk to them so approaching a group and perhaps sharing attention with all the girls like you are supposed to do in theory will not work in this environment.
Also I request some openers. Basically I have some very basic openers which I am intending to try when I next go out. These are like Hi, what's your name, you are really pretty etc. And a pick up line, which im not sure I would use as they are cheesy - Hi, are you the type of person I should get to know better?
Now you may say these won't work but this is England and this is a student population of people gagging to have sex (to put it bluntly). The techniques I have seen would work fine in bars in hollywood or wherever the PUA's try them and im sure they would have no problem picking up girls in the places I go to. Sorry for the huge essay I have written but basically I need an adaptation of the techniques.
Thanking you for your time to read my post and I will read your responses and get back to you.
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