A around 3 weeks back I met a HB8 and got her number.

date # 1 - Went very well. We went to a theature production (she studies theature, and we initially met a play because of a weekly plays going on in the city etc...) and during the play the actor in the production called upon me to do something completey random in under 5 seconds, in which i grabbed my HB8 and started going at it while 40 people watched (bold as fuck and a perfect opportunity to kiss her). I'm sure she liked it becuase the crowd sure did. Walked out kissed her a bit more before we departed, planned to meet again.

during this time we planned our next date, I had to blow her off on the weekend because I had plans to go out of town, and she was texting me how my weekend went/was going while i was gone. And she was asking when she could see me again. I asked her when she was free after the weekend, she instantly texted me a day (Wednesday).

Date #2 (Wednesday) - This is where I fucked up big time, the date went well, very well (at first). After we went out walked around/kissed a bit she asked if I could drive her home, while in the car we started making out, I suggested we drive somewhere else, where she agreed, we drove somewhere exlusive (parking lot) and starting hooking up. I forgot to buy condoms on the way there (I literally thought about it in the store and decided not to) so I didn't see sex as a possibility, even though I had her half naked in the car, and I could have asked her anyway. I thought it would be sleezy to suggest a back seat job w/o a condom so I figured I would wait until date # 3 at my house or hers whatever. (This is when I realized after I had really fucked up) I drove her home, she said she had to work til midnight both days this weekend.

The next day I texted her saying if she was available inbetween shifts, day after work etc... She then went to say she changed her plans and she wasn't working...(I took this as a major flake) Helping out with 2 shows on both Friday/Saturday and she wasn't going to be available on the weekend at all. I then went to asked her if she wanted to see me next week, she texted "yeah. But I don't think we should have sex".

I realize from this that I fucked up big time by not getting the job done on Date # 2 , and now the situation is not her interested in me as it was be for, now I am more interested in her (which isn't a good position). I'm going to try to make date # 3 happen next week, and she is moving to go school half way across the country in 2 weeks, so there was never a possibility of a LTR.

Is there any room for recovery, or did I straight fuck it up?

I've been in a similar situation before. I had been giving the girl the D a couple times, and then one night it was implied that I would give it to her, the logistics weren't there, and it was late at night in a parking lot, so I assumed she wouldn't want to. Turns out she did, and then she found some other guy a couple nights later.

You coulda screwed this up, but it's not the end of the world, find a few new girls and get your mind off it.

So your saying completely forget it? Don't even go for date # 3? I mean i responded to the "no sex text" by saying "thats fine" ill plan something next week, did you have fun at so and so, she said "thank you, yea I had a really good time". I think if I text her again "when are you free" it's just going to be a flake.