i see a cute girl on the bus everyday. she gets on the bus two stops after me. but she is always sitting far away from me. should i just go sit next with her? should i wait for the bus at the bus stop which she usually goes to? she looks european and she's about 18,19. how should i open? from my experience young european girls can only understand very short sentences.....anyone have similar experience pls give me some tips

yours truly,

ballplayer

Mate, foreign people love to talk to people at your country, so take advantage on that.
Just ask: Hi do you speak English can you understand me? I had to tell you that you look amazing on that outfit, so i had to come to say hi, what's your name?

Then you can say:
- (take a guess) You look Spanish am i right?
When she tells you about her country (imagine french) just say:
- Oh i know a french girl, she's the cutest, mainly because of her accent, and you have a cute accent also.

Then ask her how long she's been there, if she's enjoying the place, bla bla

And go from there

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Just go plop a seat next to her dude.. It all boils down to your vibe.. If you go sit down with that cool confident demeanor she'll be all yours. I'm sure she hasn't made too many friends yet; she'd love to meet someone new. Just go get her.

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thanks for the reply. i like the accent bit. it's like a small playful neg
i think it depends on the girl. some girls think that we take advantage of her because of her english. and there has to be some guys hitting on her before. i had mixed experience from the past. some responded pretty well. they like to speak more english as you said. some has been hitted on by guys for so many times. i received so many IODs at one time. she says i am italian but i live in paris. we don't speak any english. you could go bye bye. i could only roll off at that point to preserve my value. even if i neg her she wouldn't understand

do you think going to her bus stop is a good idea? i usually get off the bus really soon after i see her. so it can only be a 10-15 minute interaction maximum.

If you start to think that way you would never approach her, so this topic may be filled with great tips but you would never use them.
Stop making excuses, if you don't approach her you'll never know, easy as that!

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thanks. i think i need to work on my inner game a little bit. previous rejections kinda makes me back off. thanks for your tips man. just kinda curious...under your display picture it says "location: portugal". are you from Portugal or are you just going there to meet some cute girls???

Oh you didn't die because of that, you life didn't change and you are still the same. I bet they don't remember it anymore, so why you save regrets.

I lost all my fears doing stupid\ridiculous shit... I'm not saying for you to do the same, but if you make yourself ridicule all the other stuff starts to look normal! I don't give a shit anymore!!

Yes I'm Portuguese, but why?

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i really like your attitude. that's what i needed: positive influence. i was asking because you seem to have good experience with european girls. i haven't been to portugal before, but i would really love to go there someday. one question (it's not about pickup), what are these:

http://www.contikiblog.com/wp-content/u ... g-tart.jpg

i have tried them before. they are really good stuff. how do you call them?