What s techniques and appreoaches fror ben gthe 'go to guy; in qaperty? to exsstablish yourself as high va;ue ,male

I opnend about 2 nice girls yeseetday,l One see not to intrerested, but maybe. another we s aeist y and jekpt jujping on my feet in the cluib and basically saying your shit at dancing (I thought I Wa wsok , really) then she was dancing with my friend nad he miuchmjore happy and just swinging armd round and not muchj happniong but she seemsed relly hapy and then back to me and she was unhappyt and lfet. it was opdd.

IF it was nt fot the weier befaviour I'd totlaly be up for sticking her at least once. gt hoer number etc.

so my attetmp daied and she was much wapper with him and i coulkd rarngle this int o sencond date

but really what sold it when I analused was that
wtih him he was configetn, it was his partyt so hw as being silly, he m=was movigin round a litlmore. O was traingo tbe cool and alternativ. dfancing.

basically he had resepoect of his peeres, and I didnt. And i made massie difffernne o ho he whokd lbge neetning, gurkls did it., you progapor, they want to , socuak vakdatrion,having fin.

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how do yo uklearn to havc fin and enjoy your lief so yu cahn totllly legitmately ebe the most attrafiev osebn tiy a'c,a?n?

Can't understand shit, are you drunk or something?

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I think what he is asking is how does he learn to have fun and enjoy life and the answer is, LET GO OF YOUR EGO. Stop giving a shit what other people think of you and do what truly makes you happy. If you want to dance and act like a fool then, dance and act like a fool. Who cares if people laugh at you, you should laugh at you, it shows you're having a good time, it show's you're confident. Get talkative by approaching everybody just to chat them. Want to talk to a hot girl with out seaming like a looser then, talk to her with out caring about the outcome. Remember man, you don't need anyones validation. There's no reason why you're not good enough and the faster you stop caring what others think about you and only worry about what you think about you, the faster you can let go of your ego and just have fun. Pick up's supposed to be a fun experience, don't beat your self up over it. Sometimes you'll pull, sometimes you won't but, the key is to just have a good time and not give a fuck.

"You do not learn how to be a leader. Either you possess the skills to inspire and unite your allies and strike fear in the hearts of your enemies, or you do not." Say shit like that. That's how.

This is what worked for me:

Memoryzed a few quotes by Patton, Churchill and other leaders. Also some stuff I adapted from movies and videogames.

Changed my stance from the beta pose of crossed arms and hanging head to a confident stance with chest sticking out, back straight and head held high. Again, study a few movies and see what moves work for you.

Treat people like you are used to be in comand. Don't say "could you give me that cup, please", you are not in kidergartten, instead say "hand me that cup. (recieve cup) Thanks". But DO NOT be arrogant. A cocky and confident attitude is great, but there is a difference between a leader and a jerk.

Do this and people will pretty much follow you instinctively.

And for heaven's sake, learn how to write!

you lived my experience just this weekend. chatting girl at friends stag party, goilng super well. altady got her number / facebook. we're both in bands so common ground etc. go to dance - bitch keeps lunging forward to step on my feet. What does that mean? that I'm dancing badly? she did it over and over and indeicated some kind of pissed offness I dont ndestand

then my friend danced iwht her and she loved it. but e was getting married that day so no use for her

the she came back to me, and again being dick, standing on my feet on purpose. I didnt get it

i text her next day to say "maybe you can teach me to dance" and she said "come and see me at bar tongith" but I didnt bother. Just thought/. "youre clearly a dick".

What gives in these situations?

My mate said he didnt know what he was doing and was just leading her around and waving his arms.

so seems weird. dont get what her problem was or if I should waste my time meeting her again