Hey guys,

So its been a few months since I've posted. I've been playing the game and playing around. Been with a few in the past months, had a few mistakes. But you learn, don't you?

Recently my game has changed though. I've met my match and I need guidance. I can't really speak to anyone else, but you (or some of you) might understand my situation.

So there is a chick I've been seeing for a while. We've done practically nothing, yes practically nothing. Only recently I've made out with her and that was still nothing.
She says she doesn't want anything serious, just split up with the hubby, wants to take it easy.
But after all the time, I realised where I went wrong. I wasn't a dick. That's right, for the first time I was genuine and I was shit on guys.

Rule of thumb; Women like dicks.

So here is where it gets complicated. She sees me, she says she like me. But she played a game I've seen straight through. She played me. Seriously! big ego drop. That's what I should be doing. Not her. Or at least it feels she has!

I've met my match here and she is chatting, flirting and luring every guy around her constantly. Much to my displeasure. A real femme fatale.

So I need help. Something that has never been taught, something I could only learn through pain. But guys, I need help. I need to stand out.

Here is the situation, she is a chick that is a challenge. I can't let this drop until I've won. I've played nice, played genuine but now its playing for keeps. I need to stick myself out there, become the man and not the number. This chick, has been with quite a few guys of all areas and background. Even girls too.
I've had women fall in love with me in the past but this one is a real tough one. The other night, I was out drinking in the club and she was all over me. The next day, she still is, but she is also flirting with everyone else. I need to scope this girl and make her know she has also met her match.

Guys I know I shouldn't take the bait or play her game, be mean to keep them keen. But I need to woo her and completely win this battle. For all men out there.

How do I play this one? All suggestions are appreciated because my head is in a mess.

Thanks guys, K

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"All the ways you wish you could be, thats me. I look like you wanna look, fuck like you wanna fuck, i am smart capable and most importantly free in all the ways you are not."

I can't really help you out with your situation. However, I'm pretty sure that improving your preselection could help. She has to feel that other women are attracted to you. I also think that if she sees other women around you she will feel a pressure to keep you close to her.

Hope it helps.

P.S. Don't make it obvious that you are trying to do that.

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