I have already posted the situation about the this oneitis before in this forum:

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She "kind of" ljbfed me a bit. (see the other post, if you are curious). You helped me a lot: one of the suggestions is to fuck other 10 girls, improve game, etc.

I did a lot of these. There is one girl I am hanging out with for a week. In fact, I fucked her on friday night.

But saturday, I threw a party (with more or less 20 people) at my place.

The oneitis arrived (she was invited more by other friends than me). Her attitude was normal to me, she was like any other female friend at the party. I didn't give much attention. As I hosted the party, I couldn't do that much, in fact.

Half an hour later, the girl I am fucking arrived. When the oneitis saw me with this girl am I fucking, everybody could see on her face that the world came down for her. She was really upset, talking to nobody, really unhappy. She was really, really down.

She couldn't last on the party. Like forty minutes after she saw me with another one, she made an excuse and went home.

I have to confess that going out with other girls, improving game, etc, made me forget a lot about this oneitis. But I do still like her, not the same as before, though.

Of course, the fact that she saw me with other another one, gave me a lot of value. The last chat, two months ago, I have already improved my value a bit, as I told her "I cannot be friend with you". I could sense her giving me a higher value by not submitting to her.

But I am kind of lost. I don't know if it is an AFC mindset or what. I would really feel bad if I call the oneitits to go out. I think she could accept or, if I want, I can meet her another way.

In any case, I would really feel bad hitting on her (with an improved game). If she asks "what about the other girl?". If I answer "I am still going out with her or she is travelling or whatever", I would really feel bad, I would probably feel like an jerk. If I answer (or lie) "I am not hanging out with her", I feel like I would lose all the value I gained with her by showing that I am with another girl.

What is the game for this situation? What answer do I give to the question? "what about the other girl?"

Thanks