Ok quick query about something that comes up often. I tend to suggest a time/date for us to hangout but she says she cannot do that date and suggests another day that fits with her time table.

Viewpoint 1: Path of least resistance, allow her to choose the date.. use the opportunity to game her and enjoy it.

Viewpoint 2: Suggest a counter date, I should be the one choosing the dates, "I'm the prize" ect. Mentality.

I know this seems petty, I'm personally for viewpoint one, but a lot of the PUA material has lead to over think dumb shit like this. Is it "weak" if I agree to hangout on the day she suggests, does it suggest I have nothing interesting going on in my life?

Let her choose the date, you take care of everything else.

With the date, I'd be sure to put in a constraint, " what's your schedule like the next couple evenings? My week is pretty busy after that."

Don't get into those silly ping pong matches.

If you set up a date and she can't make but gives an alternative. Take it - but only if you're actually free. Regardless of who may seem to have the power at the moment of arranging the date doesn't matter. What matters is who shows up to the date as the Leader.

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