Hi guys,

I have a new case and would like your opinion on it.

I'm going to Germany in 5 days to meet a really good-looking girl I've known from vacation a couple of years ago, nothing happened back then. I will sleep at her house. Everything looks set right?

There are a few problems though. She is shy and she still lives at her parents. I know that negs don't work really well with shy girls while building rapport and still being playful does. Being aggressive could work, however I will have to pick the right moment because her parents are still there.

Do you guys have any tips on how I could close this girl? Or any activities I could do to get this close?
Thanks in advance.

I'm going to have to bump this. I really would like an answer haha.

So you're travelling to a different country just to meet a girl that you haven't even slept with. I hope you have some back-up plans in Germany in case this doesn't work out.

As the above poster said, I would try to at least get remotely flirty before you actually meet up with her there, so you know if you are even on the same planet as far as attraction goes. If she responds negatively plan on not even meeting her because it wont end well.

Oh I didn't explain it clearly. I'm sleeping at her house for 4 nights haha. We met on vacation and she has already been here with her parents. I'm just going to travel with a friend after that so it's fine.

If she gives you good signs, start calling her pet names/call her your German Girlfriend if you're on facebook and let her see. Take her out and try the cube test on her, shy girls usually open up after given that they believe you've opened them up.

Cool thanks.