So I had originally introduced myself to this girl during school, and we only talked a bit. So fast forward I'm returning some stuff at abercrombie obviously late in summer and it turns out she works there. And we talked for a bit and she seemed to be interested and was smiling. And I told her we should get together, that I felt I didn't really know much about her. So I asked for her number and she put it in my phone. (I know the number is correct via the area code). I said we should get together after her shift, and she told me she's done with her shift at 6. So a day later I text her round 6:30, and said "hey abercrombie, its (my name) how was work? My shirt still smells like fierce cologne." I had joked with her about the smell and the music in the store. I never heard back from her. I'm not trying to be obsessive, and I'm not hung up on this girl. I just want to know what I did wrong so I can improve next time. Should I text her again later in the week or just forget it? I I created rapport, number closed, and even made plans for a date. I texted her with what I thought was a creative opener. Is there something I could've improved on or is she just being a b****?

Hey real quick man..


Never send a first test with your "name" in it. If you have to do that, it means you didn't build up enough rapport to be remembered. The fierce joke was all that was needed. However, I'm not saying the text had anything to do with her not responding.

When you get out there in the field more you'll learn that 1 in 2 of the phone numbers you grab end up going absolutely no where. She could have 20 fuck buddies, liked you in that moment, but just doesn't have the time nor the space to hang out with you. She could have seen it, was going to reply but then something came up and she forgot.

It could be a million things, I'd say you just man up, and call her. If she doesn't answer, let it go and just realize its just another one of the numbers that didn't pan out to much.

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I like the idea of calling her. My question is when would it be appropriate to call her. A day later, 2-3 days? I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "I'll be straight forward, I hate texting and find it really impersonal, and you seem like a cool girl with a lot to offer, so how about we meet at (whatever date and whatever time)". She doesn't seem to buying all this teasing BS, I get the feeling she sees right through it. She seems like she just prefers straightforward and I know she's into all that romantic stuff like the notebook, etc.

Every girl I've ever came across prefers it straight forward. But "NoteBook" stuff? No way. Those are the things girls "think" they like but then they run for the hills once a nice guy comes along reciting every line from the movie.

I always call the first night and after 8. And just have a conversation; you don't have to "force" a meet up so aggressively. The majority of the time, when I'm awesome on the phone the girl will always say " Alright... so when are we hanging out".

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