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PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 6:44 pm 
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Need some advice. I've got a girl I've known for about a year (but I don't see very often, in fact in general she's a PITA) who is leaving the country in a week. I think initially when I arrived and met her, she was extremely interested.
Tonight she actually told me that before I arrived to take up a job (in a company exclusively employing 18-21 year old women, mostly HB's) the others had a meeting to decide who had 'dibs' on me. What ended up happening is that I was naive and (rightly) worried about fucking up my job and never did anything. I figured this girl's attractions had worn off. Boy was I surprised.
Basically by accident I took her out tonight on her own to a restaurant and band. I paid for the meal (bad move? Maybe, but I didn't think of it and in this country it was $3, she bought me a drink at the band). When we got to the band she told me the story above, and also that a friend of hers strongly suggested that she hook up with me.
I think she also said she replied with "Well what if I don't like it?" This girl is really not into being touched (hugged etc, men, women, children). Don't think there's anything more to it like a sexual assault history etc.
She played with her hair and gave off loads of IOI's tonight, but I'm worried about using kino on her because of her phobia. What I did was gradually move my leg closer so that she couldn't avoid brushing it every now and then. She later suggested I come to her room one night and get drunk.
I'm sure if I play this right I'll get laid for a week with no consequences when she flies to the other side of the world. Then I can move on to the tourists who are currently flooding through this town....
Question - is there anything I should be worried about here? How do I get over the kino thing? I can probably break tension by hugging her straight off. Obviously the night back in her room is going to be the opportunity. At what point should I make my move? Any other tips?
I've got the confidence to f-close this chick and I know I can. But actually I'd like to try some PUA techniques to boost my confidence and really start getting into the game.
There's no one-itis here in case anyone is wondering :P
Cheers for any advice.


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PostPosted: Mon Aug 05, 2013 9:20 pm 
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I've got the confidence to f-close this chick and I know I can.
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Man.. This is going to be a breeze, you just may want to do yourself a favor and stop thinking so much. Over thinking can fuck you over if you let it. What you said in the quote above is literary all I needed to read to know that you don't need any advice. Just a light kick in the ass. This is yours man. Your moment, your girl, your game. No PUA techniques needed, I've always found those things silly - used by nerds with a low level of social intelligence.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 08, 2013 7:49 pm 
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I've got the confidence to f-close this chick and I know I can.
You'll value the experience more if you take the bull behind the horns and nail her the natural way.
Surprisingly, it didn't work out. Which given all the IOI's I really can't figure out. I have a funny feeling that getting me to show interest in her was a massive ego boost before she leaves the country. I'm not an unattractive guy, I get loads of interest in clubs. Problem there is that I don't dance so I tend to hang out with the DJ who is a good friend of mine.
I need to take dance lessons and start nailing tourists. All the pieces of the puzzle are right there, it's just a matter of putting them together. Oh well, lesson learnt and no emotional investment, plus she leaves next week.
Actually I was meant to meet her tonight with her colleague who I wanted to put on a bit of a flirt show with. I think she knew my game, I didn't see them out :)
Freeze out, 6 days to go!


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