What's up fellas,

I move back into school in exactly 2 weeks. There's this girl on Instagram that I want to "warm up" I guess, so that I can meet her in person without it being strange when we both get to school. She's a freshman, I'm technically a sophmore but only spent 1 semester at that school. She liked a few of my pictures, so I liked one of hers and then noticed that she's a Steelers fan I am too.

I commented on that picture with:

"#SteelerNATION!! It's surprising to see a female steelers fan going to _______"

Not sure where I'm gonna take the convo from here if I get a response. I hardly ever run game over social networks with girls that I've never met. When I do, it usually doesn't work out. I consider myself above average looking. It's just hard to keep them interested over a social network, and then, on top of all that they have all these other guys trying to get there numbers and spit game over social networks that you're automatically put in the same category. How can I avoid this?

My goal: Keep this interesting for 2 weeks (exactly 14 days) until we can meet up in person. Anyone have any tips/advice on this? I don't wanna mess this one up. You don't find female steelers fans that actually like the team at my age too often.

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I'm in the process of doing this with a few girls, I have great sucess over social networks. whatever you do, do NOT, be contacting this girl everyday, when you get her number don't make it a habit of texting her, keep some things unknown as to create mystery for when you meet her.

Read some text game guides, i use the same exact style of text and online game and it works great, i manage to get sexy pictures all the time, phone sex, SPAM chats.

I really enjoyed The ultimate guide to phone and text game by braddock

http://thepiratebay.sx/torrent/6187531/

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Thanks a lot Moscow!

Checking it out once I finish working out. So phone calls/SPAM chats are ok? I don't know if I should get "too" sexual since we've never met before. I think that's where I'm kinda stuck at. How can I build attraction if all I have to go off of is pictures. I did this once before a while ago (probably had worse game tho), and she found it weird that I was talking sexual and we've never met before. I'm still technically a "stranger" to her.

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Also, what's my next move if she never responds to that comment?

I accidentally unfollowed her earlier and just sent a request to follow her again.

If she doesn't respond wait a week or so and try again when she uploads more pictures?

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Listen to this while you read this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CVFscjOsPRA

If you have the balls to go for a meetup, go for a meetup before school starts, that way you can be they guy she goes to from day one of her fresher's week.

Instagram isn't much of a "social" network, it's more of what I call a "sharing" network.
get her on facebook, it's up to you how you will get her on facebook chatting with you.
From facebook, get her number...

This is the order i'd prefer, but feel free to go as you feel it should go; adapt to the situation, this i find is the smoothest flow.

IG>Facebook>chat>#(text>call)>SPAM>meetup

Don't sit around waiting for her to comment back, make sure you have some cool pics on instagram of you doing badass shit, or pictures of badass shit... just to demonstrate that you are of initial value. This isn't a necessary step, but it's something I'd do, don't start randomly suddenly posting pictures just to impress her.

If she doesn't respond then you can try again when she ups more pictures, don't overdo it, being social on a "sharing" network can come off as awkward if not done carefully. It is up to you how to progress on to facebook, from facebook it is far easier and smooth, I can't help you with that really.

When you get her number I like to use a funny variation of:
You: "Whats your phone #, facebook is too glitchy for me i'm getting off"
Her: "xxx-xxx-xxxx" (if she doesn't give you her number slow down, and keep building report and offering value, use the fact that you are a sophomore to your advantage.)
You: "yur a sweetheart, here's my number, xxx-xxx-xxxx, you can only use it for emergency purposes "
Logoff. Don't text her, wait a few days for her to text you first, if she texts you first, she has more investment into you than you do in her, and you are golden, she should be attracted (as long as you do what I say below)

Be in an attractive frame from the beginning, being to friendly is going to kill you, always add a sexual innuendo, make sure it is congruent to you and the interaction. It will be weird if you act in-congruent.

Game like this is dangerous territory, remember, girls online are bored, don't take anything too serious until you see true investment.

Hard part will be getting from IG>Facebook, from there, solid text game will work wonders. You must keep the frame and escalate to higher frames.

Offer value, in that you know the school pretty well, and without sounding like a supplicating chode show her subtly that you are the man to go to on campus.

Here's a line to use incase she finds the situation weird or whatnot.

"Ya know, I've never done something like this, I thought it'd be weird, but you are a pretty cool open girl, I respect that."

Use this appropriately.

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Thanks Moscow!

Didn't wanna quote your entire post. She responded, I'm going to try to move it to facebook (or Kik - Like a texting app without having to give your # out). First though, I'm gonna watch that video and check that guide. I'll let you know how it goes. Don't forget about the thread lol I might need some follow up advice in the future and the forum has a terrible PM system (unless they updated it).

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Lol, the youtube video was just some music to listen to while you read, it gets me in the zone.

feel free to PM me if you ever need any help.

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When you do the right thing, you will be shocked at the things that will happen in return. When you do the right thing, it always comes back.