Here's a bit of background info on the situation I could use some advice on. I was going out with this girl I didn't know there was an ex factor she was hung up pretty bad on her ex, and the wheels eventually started to fall off and things went from real good to bad fairly quick. I know I made 2 mistakes with this girl I fell into the trap of talking to her all the time through texting. Normally I don't do that but I enjoyed talking to her and we never ran out of things to talk about. 2nd mistake when things went bad I took a buddy's adcvice and tried to talk to her and find out what was going on I wouldn't say I appeared needy and that advice makes logical sense but it didn't work in this situation. Whenever I end up in this situation I just freeze them out and they usually come back. Now its been months since we've talked I took it kinda hard at 1st but I bounced back gone out with different girls its been great, but there is a party next weekend that I am going to that she's gonna be at I just plan to play it cool and be unaffected by her presence, but still be a decent guy. she's still single. I thought maybe I could take another crack at it, and that's where I could use some advice how should I can honestly say I've never cared enough to try and get a girl back. Any advice is appreciated thanks!