what i want to say to guy guys. when you fall in love, there is nothing anyone can give you any sensible advice. first of all lets just examine what does it mean to be in love. you know you are in love when you do things that a person in love does. it may be a long list. but most important characteristc is jealousy. when guy is jealous, she is in charge of relationship. because a guy will be ready to do almost anything for her. we can see it from words like ‘how do i get her back’ ‘i am ready to do anything to get her back’
other things guy that is in love does is
he thinks of her
says to her that he loves her
calls her very often
reads books how to get her back

guys, when you are in love, no one can actually give you any advice, because you are in the love. the best advise is to forget it. but it won’t work because you have feelings. first thing you need to do is to swallow your pride and do not call her. throw everything that belongs to her away. throw away clothes you bought together. delete numbers, delete her from social websites. stiffen your teeth and don’t ever talk to her. give it a year or two. only after that you can think with a fresh head. when you are in love you do not think, you are emotional being that is basically kissing her poo poo that she freshly layed.

relationship is not about sex. it’s about serious things like children. if you do not give her a lumpsum she won’t care. husbands are not about sex, it’s about lumpsum of money to finance children.
sorry but that is they way it is. if you are in love, there is nothing can be done for you. two ways to go. go single and swallow your pride. or get a job and give her money = marriage, family, kids.

guys that try to mix pua with relationships. it is lame. even come up with open relationships. it is a trick. women give you an illusion of freedom so that they can marry. but when you fall in love you will realise she won’t let you meet other women. you are either single or in relationship, there is no messing about trying to get something in between.