After 13 plus years of trying internet dating on and off, I finally landed a scheduled date this weekend. In fact, it is the first official date of my life. We are meeting at a Starbuck and she is about 45 minutes away from me. She is a Mongolian immigrant who is too busy with work and school to have a social life. She says that is why she is doing the online thing. She looks completely white and not at all Asian but hey she is hot. Wish me luck and I welcome any advice.

Don't bring up race or her origins. I'm sure she's had the conversation too many times. Good luck.

I partly agree with that I've had a lot of good convo's that resulted in # closes by simply asking a girl where her accent is from. I would say don't bring it up but if it comes up it could make for a convo that keeps both of you interested. Also be cool confident. Good luck mate!

I am happy to tell you how it went downmarket. I was not nervous but where it would go was bugging me. Well we met a at Starbucks and had a cup of coffee then went to eat at a nearby Mexican restaurant. She brought up the accent as she kept asking me if I could understand her. We talked about work, family and so forth. She saw my YouTube on our phones and she was fascinated with my videos. I asked if she was enjoying herself and she said she definitely wanted to see me again. I will be in a few weekends as we are both busy. We closed the date with a hug that she initiated. First date but I feel like a new man, probably because it was my first date ever. I did NOT have this feeling when I lost my virginity.

Good man. Losing virginity is awkward and boring. Actually projecting your manhood is better. Good luck with her- just don't ask yer how many horses she has ridden.

Btw, what youtube videos do you make? You sparked my interest.

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I have 3 categories of videos.

1. Music. I play and write country.

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If you want to check it out my channel is RJ Mamula.

Update

Ok we had a second date at the mall. We had lunch then went to a park. I took the initiative in putting my arm around her. We cuddled then I took the initiative in kissing. And we laid our hands and arms on each others legs. She asked if I got any more replies on the dating site and I said no but I still browse it. She said the same of herself. So it is good that we can make out without being serious because neither of us are ready for it. I did want to have sex with her but I had no condom and there was no nearby convenient place but maybe next time.

Can't wim em all mate. There's always next time. Sounds like you got a good thing going there keep it up.