Hi Friends,

If you can, please offer some suggestions. I am not currently at a level where I can comfortably take girls home on first meeting to f close so try to say something more than "just take them home fool" - I am working on being that good but obviously I am not there yet. I am passed the barrier of transitioning from number to date and from date to k close but the next barrier is a big one for me.

Anyway, three weekends in a row, I met a different girl for a drink in a lounge, and made out. I did offer to go back to my place but was faced with the anti slut defense mechanism and a suggestion to do that on subsequent meetings.

Whats really weird is that the girls don't call me back/answer further texts. Yes I brush my teeth and seem to know how to kiss and while I did get each a few drinks, they were not pissed drunk to black out or anything.

I am obviously not doing something right. Please advise. Thanks.

It's probably because you were too big of a pussy to take them home or they could sense your outcome dependance.

My guess is the first one, you're being a pussy, because you are saying you aren't READY to pull a girl back yet... Or you are being out come dependent which is turning you into a pussy that won't push to the next level because you are afraid of losing the girl.

I'm going to tell you, if you could simply stop being a pussy, you will pull these girls. Especially if you are getting them out on day 2s... Just keep going. Calibrate your next move and always be looking for that window where you can escalate.