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Hi All,
So been watching a bit of Day Game on Youtube with people such as Jon Matrix & Yad and wondering whether anyone has had any bad experiences or bad reactions from using this method?
Got this horrible idea that the girls going to freak out and start shouting at me in the street if i try.....i know its just AA but wondered if anyone had any really bad experiences in Day Game? and what they did about it?
I have also seen a lot of the material 'daygame.com' puts out on their website and on youtube, but reckon their 'methods' are seriously flawed. Yad who is their self appointed guru practises certain techniques, if you can call them that which are claimed to be superior to traditional game, but look just like AFC pickup but done in a deliberate way. I refer specifically to :
1) Approaching from the front (after a run up from behind) with their 'Yad Stop', sometimes actually RUNNING FULL STEAM from behind ... seems desperate to me at best, at worst you risk looking like you are chasing women down. A dominant woman WILL be pissed off if you do this right from the start, more submissive types might let you launch in a conversation but this is not good game imo.
2) Opening with a compliment .. they favour saying 'I thought you looked really nice' .. so a direct approach but one which isn't alpha, rather something a gay best friend would come up with. You've just raised her value even more after running after her in order to speak with her.
3) Engaging in conversation using a variety of 'Assumptions', they favour 'You look French/Russian' etc.) and then talking about wherever they are from (they seem to focus on going for only foreign girls whether they are in C London or they go to another destination and become the tourists) ... so I would call this comfort building and while it might result in a nice conversation, I don't see it as being very effective in attraction building with women.
4) Using a technique of 'challenging' the girl in some areas on some topics in conversation .. so basically now trying to now recover some value which has already been lost, too little too late. Mild teasing .. but on a topic (taking the piss out of a place or customs in a place they are from) and never seen it done well to the actual girl which is the whole fucking point.
5) Number closing with a statement like 'id like to invite you out sometime' ... v low risk as no time or place arranged and no idea of what you guys are going to do, so they'll give you the number for shits and giggles but whats it going to translate to? how many flakes are you going to get with these sorts of approaches ..id imagine v high, the ones who respond may want to build a friendship on the back of all the comfort building and the fact they are in another country without a social circle may mean they want to get to know you in a platonic way rather than a sexual way.
What really annoys me is that in some of their videos, Tom Torrero et al keep talking about 'old school game' as if they have come up with something better, a more evolved version of game, but as far as I can tell their stuff has actually gone backwards by rejecting certain techniques in traditional game while using others ie they don't use indirect techniques as well as direct, don't neg targets, don't kino escalate etc etc ... its basically teaching what an AFC would do anyway if they had a bit of balls but with bits of game chucked in ie using assumptions instead of questions and some challenging behaviour and teasing but done in a WEAK way. cant believe these guys are running a coaching business with this, perhaps they think they have something worth teaching, but my call is that they are just trying to make the cash register ring and fund their jollies around Europe.
They have some videos of supposed infield approaches, cant see girls faces really clearly (fair enough for their privacy) but they look to me like 5/6s to 7s at best ... the ones shot in London look like foreign girls mostly students / working here for a little while, so probably don't know many people. Low hanging fruit if you ask me, which if you did a few approaches wouldn't take much game to number close with negligible game. To be a guru imo you need genuine videos of closing 8s/9s and damn some proper 10s. lets see how running behind them and telling them they look nice works
