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PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 6:42 pm 
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One situation that has always evaded me was approaching girls when they are working. I hear time and time again to just not do it, because odds are never in your favor. Yet, I still do it pretty often. Can't walk away from a 10 / 10 without trying regardless of the circumstances.

So, my question to you guys is, how would you go about approaching a girl when she's working? It's tough to build report in the brief couple minutes you have with her while checking out. It has only worked maybe 1 out of 6 or 7 times I've tried.


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 7:41 pm 
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Hmm...I'm new to the site but, I would think it depends on the situation and how much time you have.
Example 1: If you see a HB working the McDonalds drive thru it might be best to be very direct and straight to the point. (Express interest and number close)

Example 2: You notice a HB stocking shelves it might be best to be indirect an open with opinion or a favor opener. (Ex...Can you tell me where I can find the whatever) then just run a speedy routine for the number close.

If she's working then time isn't on your side so you must be fast.

Also like I said I'm new to this so I don't know if this is the best advice but it's how I would approach it


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 9:26 pm 
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Thanks man. Yeah that's usually what I try but it just always feels too rushed, like just a random guy asking for their number. Anyone else have any insight?


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 9:36 pm 
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Thanks man. Yeah that's usually what I try but it just always feels too rushed, like just a random guy asking for their number. Anyone else have any insight?

If you do it right and create attraction within the few min you have it actually is easier then meeting a girl outside of work, because with the time constraint she doesn't have time to test you like she would at a bar or club. Basically it comes down to this guy is cool ya I only met him for 5min but I'd like to see him again I am gonna give him my # or no I am not giving this guy my number its all about making the most of the little bit of time you have with her and making her think the 1st way I mentioned. Good luck


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PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:18 pm 
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the reason why most people tell you dont do it because majority of the time she will shut you out. Its possible but chances are you might be shut out. Reason being, how many other guys have already hit on her while at work? Thinka bout it. She at work, maybe she having a stressful day, or trying to catch up on her work and all these guys are always hitting on her, i would be annoyed as fuck if i was her. So her mindframe is that "i'm at work". What kind of work does she do can be a factor to. If its a job where she constantly have to interact with her costomers then the chance go up slightly, but that also means she can fall into the hire guns catagory. need more info.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 29, 2013 11:22 pm 
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the reason why most people tell you dont do it because majority of the time she will shut you out. Its possible but chances are you might be shut out. Reason being, how many other guys have already hit on her while at work? Thinka bout it. She at work, maybe she having a stressful day, or trying to catch up on her work and all these guys are always hitting on her, i would be annoyed as fuck if i was her. So her mindframe is that "i'm at work". What kind of work does she do can be a factor to. If its a job where she constantly have to interact with her costomers then the chance go up slightly, but that also means she can fall into the hire guns catagory. need more info.
That sounds about right man. For the more info part, I'm not thinking about anyone specific yet. Mostly just if you spot a lady working at a shop in the mall, there aren't a lot of customers, and she seems friendly. My go-to is usually just get something cheap to buy, make small talk / build report while she's ringing me up, and number close. This has only worked maybe 1 of 6 times so far, so I think my game needs some work.


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