Alright I had to help train an intern a week or so ago. Long story short she's been giving IOIs and last night we went out with co-workers to a bar. She said stuff to me before anyone else got there. She was there 30 mins before anyone else. She said stuff like I get slutty when I have a few drinks and then giggled, as well as she has a big ass, etc etc. So I invited her to go out tonight and she jumped on that text. I said Dinner and a Movie and she replied within seconds. Her nor I have asked if anyone else is coming etc. She's going back home in 2 weeks. Im pretty sure shes DTF. Watching a movie and dinner tonight just us? If so I'm going to try and escalate slowly and then try to get an invite back to her place. They way she talks etc just gives off vibes of DTF.

Maybe Im reading into it, but I think my instincts have it right. Any tips for tonight.



Let me know


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[quote="Profectus"]Alright I had to help train an intern a week or so ago. Long story short she's been giving IOIs and last night we went out with co-workers to a bar. She said stuff to me before anyone else got there. She was there 30 mins before anyone else. She said stuff like I get slutty when I have a few drinks and then giggled, as well as she has a big ass, etc etc. So I invited her to go out tonight and she jumped on that text. I said Dinner and a Movie and she replied within seconds. Her nor I have asked if anyone else is coming etc. She's going back home in 2 weeks. Im pretty sure shes DTF. Watching a movie and dinner tonight just us? If so I'm going to try and escalate slowly and then try to get an invite back to her place. They way she talks etc just gives off vibes of DTF.

Maybe Im reading into it, but I think my instincts have it right. Any tips for tonight.



Let me know


Hey mate
The best advice I can give you is play it cool. Don't try and rush it don't escalate too fast and make her uncomfortable. Have a good time play a little hard to get don't give into her right away make her work for you a bit present a challenge. Don't get into escalation too fast you asked her out go on the date enjoy her company make her comfortable with you. If you escalate too fast she could think this guy's a creep he only took me out to try and get laid. Try and have it happen as a natural progression you go out it goes well you're escalating slowly throughout the night she invites you back to her place you play with her a bit escalate some more then end with fclose. Hope that helps a bit good luck.

dont play it cool in this situation, she already told you she leaving in 2 weeks, ask her what she want to happen in that 2 weeks before she leaves? this should give you a soild look at her intentions and then you let her know what your intentions are. I would follow your instinct on that she is DTF, she showing signs that she wants to. i'm not going to give you any tips as you are going to be giving your "tip" to her. You seem to have the ideal. now jsut run with it. pay attention to IoI and kino, remember small compliances step by step.

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Well it went just like you guys expected. We ate out and went to the Kevin Hart Movie. It was a great night easy conversations about (etc) a couple witty comments, but no opportunity for Kino or physical escalation. So I guess you can say I played it cool. I still get the DTF vibe, but unless shes looking for me to just escalate rapidly there wasn't an opening that I could find.

The only thing she did was (She was wearing a short loose dress) she kept rubbing her legs. Not sexually, but she had her feet proped up on the seat in front of her. I touched her shoulder a few times and made her laugh a lot, but like I said unless she was waiting for me to put my hands on her legs there wasn't any opening.

She usually drinks, but last night she didn't. I should see her around work today or maybe later tonight or tomorrow. Should I initiate contact with her now, or should I wait to her from her?

Thanks for the advice, tips, and critics.

Profectus

Yes she WAS! You did not make one!
There was no; "Lets stop by my place for a drink, and check out my Sponge Bob DVD collection!"

Were you suddenly repelled by her giant ass? Because with her short time agenda, she was clearly DTF!

But like a horse to water, you did not lead her to it! That was YOUR job Bro.

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As usual a sign I thought was there, was. I tend to over think things. Short Dress on and Rubbing legs should have been a red flag. But what would you have done in my position? What should I do next time in a situation like this one. I was pretty level headed all last night, for a first date I think it went well, but I should have grabbed the bull buy the horns.

Profectus.

You should realize, that the signs you believe to be subtle, she believes are blatant.

Invite her big ass over for a drink and a movie night in!

Then fuck her guts out.

Do it now before you freeze up.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Love the idea. I'll work on it. What would you have done in my place at the movie theater though. She kept rubbing her legs?

Lets see how it turns out. I'll keep you posted.


Profectus

Tucked my hand between those meaty thighs. It would have left no question in hr mind.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

Your the best! Thanks for the advice. Next time my hands going surfing.

Profectus