hey guys.
there is something that i am always wondering about, i tried searching and everything but i desperately need your help on this one.
is there is any books or DVDs or audios or anything on how to pick up (date) girls in your uni, work or school?
most books i red are about nightgame for clubs or daygame for street, shops and bookstores.
what about girls that you see on daily basis? like Colleagues, co-workers or classmates.
so if there is any thing that teaches about this topic pleaaasssssseee!!!! tell me about it.

thanks.
moey

1. Wait for her to make the first move...invite you out...tell you you're cute...you have a nice smile...we should hang out sometime....add you on Facebook...whatever.

2. Save ALL your "game" for once you are OUT of the work environment, for when you meet her either out or at your place or her place. Don't do anything "pick-up-y" at work unless you want a reputation. That can work in your favor, but can also easily work against you.

3. Once you're isolated, proceed as usual.

4. Always be awesome at work. Banter with all the girls, that's enough to spike attraction. Then let them come to you. Don't be weird.

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how do I make her make the first move and ask me out
normally girls never ask a guy out.
I also never see her outside of work. we do not talk a lot.

Well, I was already sucessfull in picking up a colegue. My strategy was basically this:

1 - Standard compliments with push/pull technique.

2 - Act alpha. Even if you are not her boss, act like you are. Girls are naturally atracted to power. But DO NOT be arrogant. For exemple, if you two are working together on a project don't boss her around but show you are in comand with sentences like "looks like you got things covered. Let me know when you are finished", or "be a dear and go get me the bla bla file". And, of course, don't forget the apropriate body language.

3 - Act like a gentleman. If another colegue/boss cricticizes her work, take a bullet for her. Hold the door/elevator and let her pass first. If she hands you a folder, don't say "thanks", say "thank you, my darling", etc.

4 - This one may backfire, but it worked for me. Show her what she is missing out nor being with you. For exemple, at the end of a stressful day my colegue (since then my girlfriend) complained she was tired and her neck hurt. I gave her a good neck and shoulder massage and when she said it felt good I promptly replied with "you should see what I can do with a scented candle and some sweet almond oil". One other time we were talking about restaurants and I told her how I took a girl to some really expensive joint for an event called Chef Week, even though I had never set foot on that restaurant. Some other time we were talking about losing loved ones and I told her how I held a girl through the grief after losing her mother on a car crash (btw, this also never happened).

Hope it helps you, good hunt.