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Hello,
New man here. Positive about the future and fixing the err of my ways.
First of all, could somebody please explain why telling someone that you like them is a turn off? I tend to be quite forward and open when I try to invite a woman into my life and always make this mistake. One girl still seems to put my meager attempt at conversation off as though this locked me out forever. its a mistake I have made more than once it seems.
Secondly, reader of real books here. I would like some suggestions of books to read about attraction. I've skimmed through The Game and it seemed like a guide to sticking your sick into something - which may not be bad about now - but is that also the book for those of us wanting a real relationship?
Your attention is greatly appreciated.
welcome to the forum. Being that this is your first post you might want to intro yourself in the "introduction post" but that being said. Girls get turn off when you tell them you like them because to them that seems "needy" is it someone you barely know? and they might not be attracted to you. You forget most girls get hit on everyday. This is there guard, they are not just going to let there guard down until they think its ok to do so. honestly I cant remember all the books i read, but i can tell you i took parts from every book to use that fits best for my gaming style and worked best for me.
CHAT