New to this site but not to PUA in general, anywho, long story short, I met a girl got a date and the date went great, but I learned that this girl is sexually conservative (probably a good thing). The date went awesome and she text me afterwards asking if she gets another date, I agreed and scheduled another date. In between these dates this girl text me in te morning saying she just wanted to tell me she hoped I had an awesome day and text me again later that night to tell me how excited she was for our second date, so this girl was really all about me right off the bat. Anyway second date at my house we cook dinner alls going great than we lay in my bed and watch a movie and cuddle, I went for the kiss halfway through the movie and we kind of lingered in that half way space for a second than she backed up said "it's only the second date". I backed off and just acted standoffish and she said I think I'm gonna leave I said whys that she said because you're mad at me I said I'm not mad she responded well you won't come cuddle with me so I'm just gonna go, I said "peace" and she clearly got upset and fired back with "really? Peace?" At this point I felt like I was being a dickhead and didnt want to act like the rejection got to me so I made a quick joke and pulled her back in for a cuddle, she kept coming to cuddle with me and kept grabbing my hand to hold it, after the movie she asked me to walk her to the door and as I did she lingered in the door way and said I had so much fun. Normally I'd go for a kiss at this point but obviously now I'm not gonna, so she lingered for a few more seconds gave me a hug and said you were so fun to cuddle with and held me for a few seconds than lingered around a little more before walking away. So my question is, do you guys think I have a third date or did that awkward kiss moment mess it up, normally after a kiss rejection there's not another date but this girl really lingered around which seems otherwise. And if I do get a third date should I even waste my time? I go to a big college and I've never really been with a nice conservative girl like this, most girls here are, for lack of a better term " hoes". Sorry about how long this post is , thanks y'all.

Nice! Where'd you meet her? In Uni?

Anyway, keep at it man. Do NOT treat her like those other girls where you would use usual PUA tactics. Conervative girls REALLY are like this. This was so hard for me to grasp but it's true. They really require more dates. Trust me if you crack her she's yours. Just take it easy, keep it going, be charming.

Where's she from btw? Curious because I know a lot of conservative girls are from Eastern Europe for example.

Hahahaha dude dude dude..

You mean to tell me, you let a girl use you for cuddling and didn't get any action? So she gets to cuddle with you but you don't get to kiss her? She gets what she wants, but she can't get what you want? And you put up with that?


She's going to string you along until she makes you her little cute cuddly kitty and you'll be friend zoned before you know it. Cats, dogs, and teddy bears are for cuddling without getting anything in return. Next time, stand your ground like George Zimmerman. She wasn't going to go anywhere, why do you think she said " peace reallly?". She wasn't going anywhere. All you had to do was stand your ground and say " Hey, cuddle is cool, but this has to be an exchange of what we both want. " and then went in to kiss.

Last but not least, never let one rejection of a kiss stop you! Always try a second and third time. I literary went in for the kiss 8 times with this girl I was with the other day before our lips finally met. She would playfully turn away each time and say " not on the first night". That sure didn't happen, she even made breakfast in the morning

Yeah dude.. Stop letting this girls lead you.. Be the leader.

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There is truth to this, but please remember some girls truly are conservative. They will make great girlfriends, but you cannot treat them like most other girls. I fucked up a chance for a relationship last year because I thought a girl was stringing me along, turns out she was actually seriously considering a relationship with me. Some girls really really live by their principles.

However that being said, yes you definitely HAVE to be the man. You lead the entire time. Especially when it comes to escalation. A GREAT little tactic to kiss her the next time is this - say near the beginning of your date that you have a surprise that you have to give her later. Later on she will either ask "so where's my surprise?" or you simply tell her, oh damn, I have to give you your surprise. Act like you're really getting something out of say a bag or your pocket, tell her to close her eyes, tell her to open her hand, and then kiss her. Haha she'll love it!

Credit goes to Jay Wa.

Then escalate.