The target: HB8: said she hasn't had sex in a long time (true? idk why would someone say that, what advantage does it have for a girl to say that) kino's like crazy, calls me every other day, sends me updates about her day through text. she's athletic and stoner dorky at the same time. she likes to plant random kisses and hold hands. I just finish checking out David Shade's book. Good stuff in there. But I doubt I'm going to learn how to hypnotize by Sunday. Last time I talked to her she said she would of taken a nap at my place if I would of asked last time. (fml) This next date will be DAY 3.

Blunt QUESTION: how to lead her to the damn bed with out making her feel like a slut. bc she is shy and is always aware when things are escalating. and plus I notice I often miss opportunities to capitalize and the window comes and goes. I dont want to wait for a window, i want to CREATE a window.

Context -she's driving 30 min to see me while her fam goes to church. what are we doing? i don't know!!?? i have to figure that out. I got a pool/jacuzzi at my place... could go that route... idk Last time I put on a damn movie I thought we wouldn't pay attention to it. ..How da fuq was I suppose to know it was one of her favorite movies and she ended up watching the whole damn thing with full interest. My fall back plan is to invite her to my room to smoke a bowl. 70% of the time, she'll say yea all the time.

thanks a lot in advance. The more way's and advice I see of how all of you would handle this situation the clearer i see my plan of attack.