met a chick who ive been texting for a couple weeks now...ive tested the waters with being sexual via text and she doesnt give too much up....seems less sexual than most girls but shes been showing a lot of interest none the less.

i flaked the first time she asked me to hang out, i told her i wasnt feeling well, it was actually because of another girl.

last night was the first time together alone...went to a really interesting spot to watch stars (unfortunately there were 10 other poeple there). i was cocky funny the whole time, got a lot of good feedback from my sarcasm, and got comments from her like "you dont seem like most guys"...and "when are you taking the next girl here??" i played along saying things like "too bad", and "probably a couple weeks, ive been busy "

only kino i attemped was my arm around her shoulder and held her hand to help her across some rocks...playfully pushed her a few times but wasnt getting too many physical IOIs so i didnt escalate


I'd wait give it a cpl days by the sounds of things I think she'll be texting you. If she doesn't and you wanna talk to her again text her this. Clearly this relationship is not working out we need a divorce I get the house cars and money you take the kids. I've used that line 5 or 6 times with positive results everytime. Also its kind of a cocky/sarcastic way to initiate contact without sounding needy.








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there were some moments of silence that lasted a couple minutes while we were walking...but i just played like i was disinterested and didnt try to break the silence.

none the less i never got comfortably close enough to pull a kiss on the date....
and i didnt want to end the date with an awkward forced kiss so i went went straight to a hug as if i wasnt that interested in her..

she said she had a really good time and i replied "i did to it was nice to meet you"

i ended it right there and i never mentioned i would contact her, based on the circumstances kissing wouldnt be natural so i wanted to throw off the vibe that i wasnt that interested in her.

this may have helped me but i dont know if i should initiate first contact with her now or if i should wait a few days for her to contact me