Id say give her a cigarette, but before hand get one out, put it in your mouth and get her to light yours up, then give her one, as she lights up start chatting to her, it means that you have made her jump through a hoop by making her light up your smoke, hope this makes any sense bro! that's what I have done, and they tend to stick around after, rather than getting what they wanted and just leaving.
I also did the thing of getting a kiss for exchange of a lighter, it requires no game just confidence to get a kiss for a cigarette or to borrow a lighter. You can do this if all you want is a kiss, nothing more. If not the first thing I said about would be a better way to go, it all depends on your objectives.
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