Here's my situation I've known this girl for a long time she's always been attracted to me because I am the exact opposite of her bf. He's the nice shy kind that a girl could walk all over. I on the other hand joke with her and I am a jerk but within reason I am more of the badboy and she likes it. We were texting the other day she's we got talking about relationships then we got talking about sex I told her how I picked this girl up not knowing she was married she texts me back that's hottttt!!! You're such a badboy. Then she told me about her 1st time just shit that she wouldn't talk about with her bf. I guess you'd say I am the one she can be dirty around. Then one day she just stopped answering me so I let it go a few days then I texted her clearly this relationship is not working out we need a divorce I get the house cars money you take the kids. She texted me back immediatley went along with it for a while now she's chasing me. Despite what I just said she is actually a really sweet girl but every girl likes having a guy they can talk dirty to. I guess my question is should I keep it at texting and just be the guy she can talk dirty to or should I close and be the guy she can live out her dirty fantasies with because she can't with her bf. Now I know stealing a guys gf ain't cool and it comes with consequences which I am mindful of but at the end of the day its a dog eat dog world and if you want something you gotta take it. Any opinions/advice would be appreciated thanks!

It is just a girlfriend, it doesn't mean anything serious necessarily. It is his problem if another guy can steal his girl. Heck, I'm in the position where a married girl wants to leave her husband for me. I didn't find out she was married until well after the "damage" was done though

My point is, that girls are just the same as guys in a lot of ways. They love sex and romance. If her guy isn't giving to her what she needs, then she's going to look elsewhere at some point, might as well be you.

My advice is just to be considerate about the guy. Don't rag on him, don't rub it in his face if it gets ugly.

Yeah her bf is a decent guy so I wouldnt rag on him. That's what I was thinking too that it might as well be me and I might as well satisfy her before she starts looking else where and I am sol too. Thanks for the advice!

I'm not trying to play good cop here but there are a lot of other girls out there. I wouldn't eat someone elses lunch when I have 50+ other lunches sitting in front of me. Come on dude.. thats a little selfish.

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I see where you're coming from it would be selfish of me to steal her. The way she's texting me I don't think her and her bf are gonna be together much longer maybe I'll just wait and when they split I'll be the guy she can live out her fantasies with.

Let them both know that hes acting like a door mat while hes acting like one.
Listen carefully to what they both have to say.
Have fun playing them both.

You answered your own question brother. It's alot of trouble that you might get yourself into... But it's also alot of fun and you will end up with a cool story to tell.

If there is one thing in life, it is that you should not try to make other people's decisions. You want to sleep with her, go for it. You think it's immoral, then don't. You cannot control what she does, and she does not seem very faithful if she talks dirty to you, so she might cheat on her boyfriend whatever you do. It might as well be you who reaps the benefits.

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