Hey Guys,
It's me, Kevin! Just wanna thank you guys so far! I'm learning a lot, but I have a huge problem when trying to attract women and make new friends. Can you help me? Sorry if it's a little long, but if you could reply, then that would be great!

Here's my question:
When I look back a kid, I was a really shy kid growing up. My parents were strict, and didn't give me much freedom. My parents used to beat me as a child (and they still do now) with a belt and a hard, wooden stick, and one time my mom gave me a swirly (not lying )! As a kid, I liked to draw, and although I was short, I was decently good looking and athletic, and I mostly talked to my two closest friends at the time. Since middle school, I had tons of problems with girls! In 7th grade, I suffered a brutal rejection that the entire class knew about. This was the first time I told a girl I liked her, and it lead to me getting made fun of a lot for everything i do, and caused me to question if i would become alone for the rest of my life. I got picked on a lot, and this was the year I really began hiding in my shell. In 8th grade, I got made fun of for being the shortest boy in the 8th grade (5'0 at the time), so I hid my feelings. In high school, I got taller overtime, but I still was shy around girls/ new people. I played football in high school, but wasn't a superstar, so i didn't get noticed. I asked girls to proms and school dances during my years, but i always got beaten by a "better man". i had trouble getting a prom date, and in the end, although she was cute, my date used me just to hang out w/ her friends. By the end of high school, I felt like all the bonds I made w/ my friends at the time were broken...

I'm gonna be a sophomore in college right now, and freshman year, I used to play football, but I was a benchwarmer, so I'm practically invisible around girls, unlike my other teammates. I commute at home (because of mom and dad), so I don't have much chances to talk to girls around campus. I also don't have a car, so I have to get picked up by my parents. I try to say hi to girls, but I usually don't know what to say around them, plus my friends from the football team gave me the usual "girls won't talk to me until I become more popular". My confidence around women went down the tanks. I'm good looking, 5'9, pretty in shape/muscular built, smart, and have very good grades, but I don't know how to communicate to new people, especially girls, cuz girls have higher social expectations than guys. I also got cut from the football team during spring camp because the coach wanted a smaller roster, and I was terrible compared to the other runningbacks, especially the 3 time all american Nate Bradford (not his real name for privacy reasons), and becoming a football star was my only chance to attract women on campus. Also, now that I am no longer on the football team, the connections I made with my former teammates (weak connections) will be completly severed. If I was a loner with the football team as my only acquaintances, how will I make friends now? I spent my entire freshman year alone in a corner in the cafe' or in the library praying that a nice, friendly girl would approach me and like me for who I am, but of course it didn't happen.... I was a complete loner, and I worry sometimes that I won't fix my social skills. Sometimes, I think about killing myself by jumping off the bridge that's near my campus!!! I'm a total AFC so far!!!

So here's my question. How to I talk to girls so that they find me interesting/ want to go out with me? How do I improve my social skills? I really need you guys' help right now!! Your my only support system in my life right now because I have no one else to turn to. Thank you for everything you have done so far! I am starting to get better, I took the first step an found a reliable support system, but this problem is why I'm here today. And thank you for reading this!

BTW, I have a poll question for you guys!!!

Sorry to say this but your parents are the worse! How old are you? How the fuck beats up children like that?!
Your first mistake is to think that you need to become a star to get girls, you don't need to you just need to become confident, which you can do it with\without being a star and shit.

(irony) I think killing yourself would make you feel happy about yourself and will get your problems solved... OF COURSE NOT, where you have your mind to say something like that?! You have to fight, and since you don't have nothing to lose right now (cuz i see that you are about to do anything to get your life better) how cares if you fail? Don't give a shit for some bullshit like that!
You have to fail and fail over and over again, it's part of the process. Take it as when you were playing super mario long long time ago, you had just a few lives to reach all the games, you failed a lot but you didn't quit from it. So if you didn't quit for a virtual game why should you quit from a physical game right?

You have to approach them with no interest on them, you can ask some bullshit (like opinion about something) and then you have to make some interesting observation about her (it can be out of the blue) like:
(take 2 perfume samples from a store - like those tags that you spry on)
you: Hi, would you give me an opinion? I want to buy a perfume but i'm still undecided (show the samples) what you think smells better?
she: hum this one
(ok now that you have her attention, make a transaction - so you can make an observation about something cool she has)
you: oh i like your bracelet did you made it by yourself?
she: yes
You: so you are an artist!?
she: No, i'm not an artist (conversation die)
Then you say: Ok, oh I'm sorry (because you forgot to introduce yourself, but you should never start to introduce yourself, you must do it after a little talking), I'm Kevin, what's your name?
she: bla bla
You: So besides of having a good taste for perfumes what you do for living?
She: I study
You: Let me guess... modelling (this is a complement works all the time)
She: no!
you: Why? You look really tall and cute, you are missing the opportunity of becoming a star! (complement)
She: ahah (something like that)
you: So what you study, then?
She: (imagine she says something boring like) Math
You: Oh i don't want to be mean or anything but if you become a math teacher you'll be hated for all your students! (teaser her)
She: ahah (something like that)
You: At least you will allow your students to copy on exams?
She: ahah maybe
You: Oh ok then when you start to give classes tell me because i still need to finish my math, do you accept bribes?
She: ahah if you pay good
You: ahah what an opportunist!... Ok listen i have to go meet up with my friends
She: ok
You: but you seam really cool so why (take out your phone) don't you give me your number (put your phone in her hands) and i'll shoot you a fancy slash romantic text and we go from there?
She: Oh but i don't give my number like that
You: ohh but i'll get confused again about perfumes and i'll have nobody else to request for help (smile) ok let's do it this way, i'll only shoot you just one message, but if you changed your mind you'll not need to answer me and i'll not text you ever again, seams fair?
She:
-- ok -> (get your number)
-- No, sorry -> say "ok, then give me your facebook"
-- She doesn't want to give you any contact: Then say: "ok, nice to meet you, have a nice day" and leave


This was an example of a boring girl's talk, which happens a lot, so you don't have to become boring like her just don't over exaggerate on your gestures and try to have the same amount of energy she does avoiding to become boring.

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Gotta put da cream!

oh college, don't game girls there, people might start to do the same to you like when you were kid and you'll feel awful! I've try to game my new female class mates and i had to stop doing that because near people start to talk about it...it's not that i give a shit but and i don't want to make anybody uncomfortable around me.
So i start to game only the girls that I've created a deep connection with, which at the moment is just one because the other left school.

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Listen..... my friend, I want you to kill your past memories... every morning hit reset, live in the moment. If you look into the future you become anxious, if you live in the past you start to anylize. Be happy and just live every breath to the fullest in the moment, I dont mean by living to the fullest by doing crazy things...