Hey i've moved to a new town. I went out last night met some people, talked a little bit to a 42 year old who was fit (looked more 35, i'm 30 myself) and they invited me to a club with them. While having a smoke with her friend outside.

The 42 year old had given her friend to give to me her number on a napkin for me. Now my problem is there was some big bouncer talking to her most of the night and i seen her take him home. He was also not from this town. I forgot to give her my number in the club.

If i still wanted to get this on would i text her tonight to remind her who i am so she would have my number?

If she gave you her number she was interested - at least at one point.

You probably should have acted when you had the shot - ie: before the bouncer showed up, or even during...

You may have blown it - but yeah, no harm in texting. If you've got a call-back to that night (something she'll remember about you or a playful joke or observation you shared), include that in the text. Might help with her recall.

Make the text playful and fun as well. Don't mention the bouncer.

Yea..

She has sexual prime cougar syndrome; I'd advise calling her vs texting her though. Be a bit more aggressive and keep your emotions in check throughout this interaction.

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Hey thanks, i met up with her on the weekend but ditched her for some other people because she turned up 2 hours late. She kind of freaked after that and would'nt stop texting me that night.

So i met up with her last night. She only took me to that bouncers fucking birthday party to be a head fuck, she'd been going out with him for 10 weeks but he was married. So i blanked her and had a good conversation with some other people. When she got bored and noticed i was having more fun than her. She pull me out to go back home. I was was going to reject her but was being egged on by the group and gave in to peer pressure.

Well i get back after we been kissing all night, i went to take her into the bedroom, but she freaked out with ( i dont want to sleep on first date) and left straight away. I did take her in to early i guess, probly 10 mins after putting on some movie.

Next day wake up to a few messages she said she'd phone later, but told her no and to sort her shit out. Which she said okay i stop messaging you. Only problem is i developed a bit of oneitis with her after 2 days of dirty texting and still want to bang her.

Also thanks Joey i only just read that today, i should have kept my emotions in check a bit. But enjoying being seduced to much.

By the way should i just ignore her and i could bump in to her on saturday as its her birthday. She's not my only option and i'm doing pretty good now at getting numbers, just getting them back home is a bit harder.

My advice would be to not just focus on this one girl - if you're doing that, you're going to be all needy around her.

You need to enter abundance, and the best way to do that is by hooking up with other girls.

-Zak