I get the impression it litterly does...but why? It's happened to me at least 5 times in the last year with three different groups. Sometimes I could just be sitting there in a mixed group, merely just being behaved and minding my own or just listening to what others have to say, next thing one of the girls litterly flies off the handle for no apparent reason and says something like 'I really dont like guys who say nothing! ' or 'I bet you get drunk after drinking that one pint' (In a very negative tone) The other two times one of them complained to my brother that I was being too LOUD (I was the quietest one there) and during that same night I was just sipping vodka and the house-owners mother gets all up in my face again for no reason, I was just sitting there being behaved and listening and she was like 'Oh, you should get a fucking life' The people I was listening to stood up for me and I told her 'Don't embarass yourself.' Another time I just came up to a group and said hi, I didn't really say much afterwards but one of the males muttered something smart and they left not too after, a couple of days later one of the rug-lickers of the group was being extremely indirectly offsensive about me using her SPAM status, I figured this particular one has serious personal issues with men though

So what exactly is up with that? Is there any scientific reason why women hate quiet guys? I mean, i didn't directly upset them nor did I ever intend to, im just not much of a talker

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

There is nothing wrong with being the quiet guy, not really my style but nothing wrong as long as you are not the quiet weird guy. I know a guy that is ultra quiet and many males think he is gay...he pulls mad girls. How??? you ask, when he talks he is smart, confident and doesn't try to say something just for the sake of talking. Since you have more than a few stories about people being offended at you being quiet I would assume you are doing something else wrong...staring, lack of confidence, body language etc. Also I would say don't worry so much about what others think some people will like you some won't....thats life. GL

Quiet people creep people out... Especially in a "social setting" (i.e. a bar) If you sit there quiet... it makes it seem as if you are "up to something"

@odyn

I wasn't as confident back then as I am today, also most of the time the attire I was wearing in most cases wasn't the friendliest either (Hoodies) I wasn't exactly 'used' to socialising either, it was pretty much new to me and it's hard to come to that when you're used to being excluded from activities from school and just doing your own thing for many years, i've been there before although I have been coming out of my shell and appearing less weird and more friendly, so maybe it was just me...I suppose when I put myself in the shoes of someone hanging with a mute guy, it would sort of arouse some suspicions and cause discomfort. I don't worry about what everyone thinks (Like 20% of the people I meet don't like me nowadays) doesn't bother me anymore but there was a time it did. Another girl who was part of the last group I mentioned was comparing me to a peacock lol People used to believe I was gay too mainly because I didn't appear 'normal' but nobody is anyway, the school I went to pretty much tried to force everyone to grow up and fast, I refused myself to allow myself to become too generic, im still happy to be different, but I don't want to come off as weird either, thanks for the response

@TheMajikalMethod

I suppose it makes sense, especially if we were to stare at people too, no-one likes being stared at obviously but it has been a very long time since I broke the 3 second rule. Im not the greatest talker but its probably because the fact whenever I opened my mouth in school i'd get criticised by the students, i'll obviously have to work on changing that mindset and start knowing that what I have to say does matter, and people do want to hear it, as long as I make it sound good and interesting, obviously that where social, body language and storytelling comes into play, thanks for the repsonse

Matt

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"

Why? Hahah very good question that I am experienced with.

I can easily answer it with this.

James Bond.

Think on that for a 2nd. Would you ever see James Bond(I think of Daniel Craig personally) being the loud, life of the party, lamp shade on his head guy? Fuck no!

Is he still considered attractive, suave, and most importantly, gets laid by beautiful women? Fuck yes!

Think about it OP. The 'hate' you receive are shit tests. Talking is for qualifying, talking is for people who feel like they have to contribute something. You could be like them, talking away so that the silence is filled, or you could be like James Bond.

Being silent can be seen as a strength or a weakness. And what happens whenever girls(Pretty much anyone) are unsure if you're the real deal? They shit test you. And how do you deal with a shit test? 2 ways, ignore it or face it head on and blow it out of proportion so it becomes a joke.

Quiet guys piss girls off? So does any guy that doesn't kiss their ass and take their shit. But as any good attraction artist knows, the goal is to make a woman want to slap you and kiss you at the same time.

Be like James Bond.

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@Syx

I had a pretty good laugh reading your post As for shit-testing, there was a time i'd take it as a personal attack but my ability to turn a potentially ugly scenario into a pleasant one is improving. I suppose I shouldn't depend on talking, at least not too much of it but it's obviously important to be able to talk, if you need to. It's not something that comes naturally to me but its definately a skill i'd like to improve on. The first time I kissed a girl I never exchanged a word with her (Although we were 13 and 14 years old) until after I kissed her, she just saw me on the playground bench and wanted me o3o Perhaps a shit-test is kind of like a female neg? Its obviously important to not only not take those personally but show that it doesn't effect your drive, ambitions or how you think about yourself, thats obviously what they look for in a guy, shatter-proof confidence, thanks for your response

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Why ask a girl generic and boring questions like 'How are you, where you from?' when you can ask "Whats the craziest thing you've done, what was your first kiss like?"