Hey, y'all. I'm relatively new here (I joined a while ago but have just been lurking), but I have an idea for a thread...

Basically, I'm planning on creating a some helpful "101" type threads in the future, and I wanted to ask the newbies:

What's Your #1 BIggest Issue with Successfully Meeting, Attracting, and Fucking women? Is it follow up phone game? Is it overcoming limiting beliefs? What is it? What do you hopelessly struggle with?

I'm mostly talking to the less experienced guys here, but alphas/veterans are encouraged to chime in as well.

Hopefully, we can narrow down a list of the biggest sticking points here, and make some magic happen in the future

Thanks!
-FinalBoss.

I have noticed in some of the friends that I am training on PUA that Limiting beliefs have been the biggest issues with picking up or even approaching woman. I have successfully helped eliminate some of them but even now they stick with some of my students and have not figured out why the limiting beliefs are such a big stopping point for them.

For me, it is the approach. The reason why is because im learning college game right now (im 19, gonna be a sophmore), and all of the college game theory that i have read so far state that cold approaches will make you look bad and severly lower your value to the ENTIRE CAMPUS. These new rules in college game makes the approach more difficult because college game plays like a popularity contest where only preselected men win. I find myself in a catch 22: I can't approach girls because im not preselected, and i wont be preselected if i dont approach girls......

Something to help me pull the trigger more often would be nice. I saw a girl today, and I smiled at her. She smiled back. Then I walked by her. Afterwards I was obviously frustrated with my lack of balls. I guess help with openers would be nice. I just get nervous and I feel like I can't think of anything to say. From there I'm okay with keeping a conversation going.

My friend could really use help with getting past the conversation stage. He's told me that he's dating a girl right now. I don't get that feeling from them. So I asked him, "What if I asked her if you two were dating? What would she say?" And he said that she probably wouldn't say they were. He's done this before, and it ended sort of poorly.

Thanks for the replies! It sounds like approaching women is the biggest sticking point, thus far. When it all boils down to it, I guess you could relate that issue back to limiting beliefs & motivation.

I would love to hear from more people!