Calling a girl "women"?



Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 25 guests
Post new topic Reply to topic   Board index » Get Into The Game: New Forum Members Start Here » General Questions




Author Message
 Post subject: Calling a girl "women"?
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 1:55 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Mon Feb 18, 2013 8:17 am
Posts: 70
I have been wondering about this, kind of a silly question.

Do you think a girl would get offended or not like being called "women"? For example

" alright look here women"
" hey women, over here"
" what's up women"

I feel like it sounds rude and like a dick but at the same time might establish dominance and confidence. Any thoughts?

_________________
Anyone can be confident with a full head of hair. But a confident bald man - there's your diamond in the rough.
- Larry David


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 2:03 pm 
Offline
Dedicated Member
User avatar

Joined: Thu Jul 14, 2011 3:38 pm
Posts: 752
Location: Sarasota, FL
Girl's will respond well to just about anything, depending on the delivery. I had a friend who, for years, referred to all women as "vaginas". He was a goofy guy, and girls all thought it was hilarious.

" alright look here vaginas"
" hey vagina, over here"
" what's up, vaginas"

I seriously have a lot of respect for that guy, because I don't think I could pull that off. So yeah, anyway, calling them women should be just fine.

-Wolf

_________________
Screening: drama-free-relationships-1-screening-vt124827.html
Bad Behavior: drama-free-relationships-3-the-soft-next-vt125554.html


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 4:52 pm 
Offline
The Coach
User avatar

Joined: Sun Jun 19, 2011 7:44 am
Posts: 4170
Location: Chicago, IL
Quote:
I have been wondering about this, kind of a silly question.

Do you think a girl would get offended or not like being called "women"? For example

" alright look here women"
" hey women, over here"
" what's up women"

I feel like it sounds rude and like a dick but at the same time might establish dominance and confidence. Any thoughts?

I do it all the time.... It usually gets her to react.

"Shut up woman!"
"Listen woman!"
"Bring your little ass over here woman!"
"Get in the car woman!"

I'll also use "little girl" sometimes too. Especially with girls who are older than me lol

It depends on the delivery... Smiling as you say it is pretty crucial too. Alot of guys facial expressions don't match what their emotions are. If you are trying to be funny... be funny. Don't look like a dick.


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 5:22 pm 
Offline
MPUA Forum Enthusiast

Joined: Wed May 01, 2013 12:54 pm
Posts: 48
As long as you are congruent when you say it, it will work.

It's like for example, if I told two guys approach a girl saying 'Oi girl, get here now'...

One of them felt really comfortable and congruent saying it, whilst the other felt as though it was really forced and incongruent.

I promise you the girl will react badly to the incongruent guy, and will react well to the congruent guy.

It doesn't matter what you say, it's how congruent you are when saying it.


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 6:02 pm 
Offline
PUA Forum Leader

Joined: Wed May 29, 2013 3:08 am
Posts: 935
I agree with all oif the above its all in the delivery. I came home from work one night and said to my ex where's my dinner she replied make your own so then I said you need to start showing a little more respect for my authority woman. She thought it was hillarious because I said it all in a joking manner and she knew I wasn't serious. Light joking insults like that also present a sort of challenge which women like. Just watch how you deliver them.


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 7:12 pm 
Offline
Read My Book
User avatar

Joined: Thu Jun 27, 2013 8:08 pm
Posts: 5028
Website: http://www.EddieFews.com
Location: New York City
Dominance and confidence is never about WHAT you say, it is all about HOW you say it. A couple of my buddies, call women " bitch" - " Come here bitch". And it works because they are saying it righteously and confidently.

Take less focus off the what and put more focus onto the how.

_________________
Need Coaching? For 1 on 1 Coaching via SPAM, Phone or Instant Messenger - Email: EddieFews@Gmail.com

Show Support, Buy The Book: 'The Secret Laws Of Social Wisdom - Click Here

http://www.EddieFews.com


Top
   
PostPosted: Thu Jul 18, 2013 7:44 pm 
Offline
Dedicated Member
User avatar

Joined: Fri Jun 08, 2012 12:37 am
Posts: 659
Whatever floats your boat. As others have said it, as long as you say it correctly, most things can work. I would restrain myself from calling women vagina or bitch, but once again, it's up to you.

Just make sure if you're writing it, women is plural, woman is singular.

_________________
A morning of awkwardness is far better than a night of loneliness.

18 Body Language Mistakes I Bet You're Making


Top
   
Display posts from previous:  Sort by  
Post new topic  Reply to topic  [ 7 posts ] 

All times are UTC


You cannot post new topics in this forum
You cannot reply to topics in this forum
You cannot edit your posts in this forum
You cannot delete your posts in this forum
You cannot post attachments in this forum

Search for:
Jump to:  

Can we be honest?

We want your email address. Let me send you the best seduction techniques ever devised... because they are really good.
close-link