Here's my question I have my own ideas but its always good to get an outside opinion. I knew this girl for a while we hung out a bit then we both moved and just lost touch. I don't have her # anymore but the other day she just popped into my head she didn't have fb at the time but the other day I noticied her in the ppl you may know section she's living in the same city as me now. I wouldn't mind talking to her again and setting something up. Fb isn't the most ideal way to contact a girl but right now its my only option. So my question is what's the best way to msg her on there without looking needy?

Just don't over think it man.. But just buddy to buddy, I think you need to get out the house more. You do a lot of post about old girls.

A simple " hey, where have you been? " will get the conversation rolling.

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Thanks for the advice I appreciate it! I do most of my posting from my phone lol. I just like to to get outside opinions on some of my situations whether anything comes of it or not. Other times I like to run past situations past ppl to get some advice on things I could have done differently. I know I post a lot on here but in the long run I am just seeking advice trying to become a more well rounded person.

Hey buddy I thought I'd post an update. I added her on fb within 2 msg's I #closed and possibly have a date tonight. I spent too much time worrying about looking needy until I just said fck what's the worst that can happen.

Hey mate,

well done!
Just remember whenever you get in such a situation, when you find yourself overthinking and you seem to be mentally facing a treshold to big:

the worst thing that could happen is you not trying at all.

cheers and good luck!

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Thanks I appreciate it! I just got out of a relationship and that stung a bit. I never used to overthink things I'd just do it. I just need to tune up my inner game some more and I'll be back on track.