Hey,

Well it's the start of a new semester here and at my university we often have students come from different countries on exchanges for a semester or so. Well there's this new girl in one of my lectures who is ridiculously hot, who's on an exchange from America. Two days into the semester I saw her at a party and managed to get with her and went back to her place, but we didn't go past kissing "Hey, mister, I just met you". But we got along pretty well, like the conversation was nice and fluent and we seemed to be on the same wavelength. She was sober too. Thing is, she's 9 years older than I am lol, I'm only 19 and she's 28. She mentioned a couple of times that she felt like a pedophile but I tried to dismiss it by saying things like I'm the guy and showing how much larger I am than her (Like when I was hugging her resting my chin on her head).
I couldn't get her number either at the time because when I asked her neither of us have our phone numbers memorized. Anyway, at physics for the next few days she'd sit infront of me and turn around and smile or poke her tongue out and so two days after I gave her my number but her phone isn't working since it's an iphone from the USA and it won't work here. My sister had the same problem too and she ended up having to buy a phone when she was here.

Any advice on how to play this brahs? Seriously she's so fucking gorgeous, she looks like she's 22 and she's probably the hottest girl I've seen this year, let alone got with. She's also smart as fuck as well as talented/athletic/charismatic as fuck. I care too much and that worries me.

It's fine to have your feelings, don't try to shut them down. You just have to make sure your feelings don't affect your performance, you can't get all stupid because you have oneitis. You see this girl regularly? What the hell, man? You know people used to date and hook up before cell phones, right? You should be talking to her before or after class. If you can hang out with her after class, you have potential to go somewhere for an insta-date. If classes get in the way, arrange to meet her somewhere at a certain time, go low tech. If you MUST use some sort of text game, you have internet, why not do chat or facebook?

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31 and still figuring it out.

There's a problem with that too, see, she's always late to class and the class is really full and so it's hard for me to get a free spot next to me or to sit in a location that's accessible to her. The class is basically arranged in rows but they're so close together you can only really sit on the side because they're too tight for you to walk past people. So she only sits on the side and I'll try and sit on the side so she can sit next to me but I probably can't just come in late and go and sit next to her because her row will likely be full.
I have a lecture straight after this lecture everyday too, and I'll be more than happy to skip it (A- average last semester going to less than half my lectures) but when I last spoke to her she kind of broke the conversation before I did and that implies to me that she has a lecture afterwards too? Also, is it too "needy" if I'm always waiting outside of lectures for her or something? Maybe I should take my time packing up and see if she waits for me?
As for facebook, no mutual friends, and I forgot her last name so she's impossible to find on there, lol.

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