The "Alpha Lifestyle" is defenetly a must. Also, get one of these:
http://www.amazon.co.uk/BMW-Genuine-Sti ... ds=bmw+usb and "accidentaly" forget it on the counter in a low movement hour after you chatted her for a couple minutes. If it goes as planned the moment you walk away the waitress says "Hey, sir, you forgot you keys" and hands it over. Now, even a girl that is not into cars knows that a carbon fiber BMW key means business. I already got two waitresses and a news stand girl with that routine. BTW, waitresses look a lot at the client hands when they are giving you your order, collecting money, etc. so a nice watch (even if it is a replica) and a good college, military academy or championship ring help.
And resist the urge to tip her. Too little is just insulting, too much and you will blow your game.
Good hunt, mate!