This isn't about getting laid as much as it is about being a really good looking guy because that is what I am working on right now.

About 2 years ago I started lifting weights and about a year ago I started to read GQ magazine. About a few weeks ago I started to lose my glasses and wear contact lenses more often than not. Now here is a bit about myself:

- 6 ft tall
- black hair
- brown eyes
- olive or that special kind of Chinese/Asian skin
- get complimented on looks here and there but not often
- got into beautifulpeople.com without any issues (if you don't believe me I will send you a wink with my profile there)


Having read so many internet discussions on looks and being a good looking guy and having observed what girls and other guys call good looking, I notice that all (lets say 97 percent) guys are White and even that dark even though people say tall dark and handsome a lot.

Now to be fair, guys of my background (Indian) do not put that much effort into their appearance and that may play a role. But I have a lot of Latino friends who are Mario Lopez lookalikes and some that look like Jay Hernandez but where I live they never really get attention for their looks.

Whenever a male has been treated well because he looked good from my experience, he was almost always a White male who was about 6 ft or taller, never a minority. Maybe it is because of where I live but online discussions tell me things in Los Angeles and NYC are not that different than from the deep south.

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The problem mate is that you focus on your look rather than on what you should do\say, also i bet you put too much shit to your body (pills, operations, and shit) and you are getting you life short.

I don't say that you shouldn't take care about of yourself, i'm just saying that you shouldn't think too much on it, that magazines are just marketing for selling you prettiness stuff.
I would like to see a pic of you, you got me curious, send me a PM with it but don't expect a comment : P

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Gotta put da cream!

I'll dig up a pic of myself and send you a PM of a pic I took not too long ago but I expect to keep it on PM and not on here.

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Don't worry about it, i'm a grown man!

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Gotta put da cream!

This is the Deep South according to Wikipedia:



Here's a study from the Deep South: http://homepage.psy.utexas.edu/homepage ... on2009.pdf Don't worry. The document is still free as of this moment.

Here's an excerpt which summarizes the results of the study:
I have attached images to prove a point. I'm not arguing with you because that's just like talking to a brick wall. These are the facts and figures for what they are whether you accept these or not is up to you.

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location: asia

and you believe one study on it

your study sooooo much compared to the experiences of people living here and someone who has lived here for a while

main problem with a lot of PUAs, I get the feeling a lot of you come from sheltered places where everyone is White and race is never a problem or where you are the only one of your kind.

ya, don't argue with me hellhound and don't even post on my threads because you don't offer any good advice, ever.

dumbass, going to tell me an area of the US that recently banned an interracial from getting married is one in which race does not mean shit.

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Nah. You're just too stupid to realize that the study was mainly conducted by white people (in an interracial team) on mostly white subjects. And here you are, citing one interracial anecdote versus a fact-based study on many in the same area.

Honestly, you're the first Indian I've encountered who's rude and angry as fuck. I've worked with interracial teams, never felt any discrimination from white chicks, and it feels like you're an Indian white supremacist hardcore who's out to scalp my head with a tomahawk for sacrificial offerings to your Holy Cows.

Here motherfucker:



I eat your gods once or twice a month in steak form and many times over in hamburger form.

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What are you asking?
No. There are different people who have different tastes.
You keep on saying how educated you are but don't know a different between anecdotal and statistical evidence? Only thing that is sketchy with the study is the low turnout, but nonetheless, the high standard deviation and the low mean in the race category should speak for itself.


I grew up in different communities, living in Eastern Europe among upper-class white people, then living in one of the worst Philly neighborhoods where I went to school with 81% non-white population, then living in SoCal and going to school with 60% Mexican population, then going to a college with a 94% white population, during which I traveled to Dubai five-six times every year.

You will have this problem as long as you keep thinking and talking about it. People are trying to help you and you keep on being blind to their reason. Whatever floats your boat dude, you're going to live one tough life if you don't let go of shit that doesn't matter as much as you think it does.


And that steak looks fucking good.

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Something is not right here Paramount.

I ran some of the words you use in this forum on Google and was surprised to see different forum threads on the search results. I clicked on the links on the first pages of half a dozen search engine results and there you go: same content, same writing style, and same mentality from the same poster with different user names.

You've also been getting the same answers that you're getting here and on so many other different forums and yet you persist and insist on this dumbass point of view-- FOR SEVERAL YEARS NOW.

Here's one forum thread that's fucking the same as this one: http://www.mentalhealthforum.net/forum/thread65400.html

And another: http://www.ign.com/boards/threads/tired ... 453182549/

There's more; too many to count.

Check a psychiatrist. That's all the help you need. Getting a fix from the attention you get in forums is not going to change a thing and help you out in the long run.

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For starters, I fucking love steak, one of my favorite foods to eat. Then lets talk about how you are trying to help me but say some racist shit stereotyping me, oh I am Indian, I must not eat beef. SMH.

Then lets go on with it.

When I see lists of attractive men, it is usually a White Male that is an actor if we are talking famous people. When it is real life I usually see girls checking out guys who are White with light features or medium features, makes you wonder if this tall dark and handsome stuff is a bunch of nonsense and if mixed people are truly attractive.

When you have hit the gym, worked on style, and did all that but do not benefit from looks like your White friends do then yes it does mess with your head and this topic has been bothering me. I want to have my fucking discussion on this topic, that is what I want. I want to know why the fuck each and every guy in my area that gets called attractive and is getting attention from girls is a pasty White dude while so many Black, Asian, Indian, and Latino guys get overlooked and do not get the same SPAM.

I want to know what is going on here and why what is happening rather than the same ol "oh its all in your head". No the fuck it isn't in my head, it is in society and I want to know where I can get away from this bullshit where only White males are seen as attractive by women in the looks department. It certainly is the case down south.

But hey, when I bring it up all of you in here who happen to be White want to play the game of denial and look at a person as crazy if they point out something that is going on.

I have admitted to wanting to leave forums and resolve a lot of my issues so I can live a happy life but quite honestly it sucks to hit the gym and work on your looks only to have some extremely skinny White kid that does not care get attention for his looks while you don't.

Soon I will be getting on AIM and SPAM with a few members here to talk more about issues.

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My looks is something that I know I am good in. I have looked at a 1,000 mirrors in every angle imagineable. I have measured my face, my nose - width ratio etc.... I have studied what makes people attractive.

Workout your butt more instead of your chest and biceps. Your odds at attracting chicks will be higher. There's a reason why I posted the GQ vs. Cosmopolitan Alexa demographics.

Also, develop propinquity strategies and work them out to your advantage. Among women, your odds of getting that booty call is higher if you focused on improving your personality more rather than your looks.

Race as an issue is way down below the reasons why women (white, black, brown, yellow) will not ride your dick. I'm done with this thread.

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Post a pic without your face, with sign that says "Paramount." Should be easy and take 2 mins. Show these guys you're serious and a real person. If not, troll on.

oh no its a miscer!

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The OP is trolling for validation. Work on yourself, anyone's opinion of you shouldn't affect your sense of self.