Hi men,

I met a wonderful brunette some weeks ago, and we had a nice vibe. After texting and chatting for a few weeks she suddenly went cold. I didn't really care because I wasn't attached to the outcome anyway. At the moment she probably met someone else to give her attention. Yesterday she tried to reinitate contact and said she owed me an apology. But I don't really know how to respond. Act normal and do like nothing happened, or play it cool and see if she invests a bit more or.. ? She has a smoking body so I'd still like to do her.

If you play "it's cool", you teach her that you don't care about her using you. You will condition her to see you as an object that she can manipulate. As one would turn a TV on or off when it suits you. And you are a man and therefore supposed to just 'suck it'. In the long run, this teaches women that they can use men as their playthings.

You would do best to correct her, at least point her attention to the way she made you feel. It's the only right thing to do. You will prove that you are a human being with a sense of self-worth. Selling out your self-worth for the flaky moods of a woman is just not a good deal.