Hello! And sorry for the bad english.
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So this is my situaton:

I used to go to high school with this realy cute girl, and we were friends. I had no sexual attraction to this girl, but she is very beautiful. After we graduated we lost contact, but a few months back we reconnected, and i started to see her diffrently. I believe i got a lot of IOS from here, but since she was my friend i was always afraid to ask her on a date.

I ended up asking her two times, but i was drunk texting then and the first time she answered that she couldnt that day, but some other day. The second time i asked her, she did not answer. But i used to get a lot of IOS from here i think. And now she does not show so much interest anymore.

I know that i screwd up pretty bad, but is there any chance to get this back on the right track? I really like this girl now, and i want to get things right.

You could always do the old "change relationship status to In a Relationship on Facebook" trick and see if she responds at all. As pathetic as it sounds, it sometimes works, depending on the girl. Think of it at a "Troubleshooting 101" for the female brain lol.

No. Not for this.
The fact that you are asking this question is proof that you are not ready. Forget about this girl...for now at least. Study more PUA techniques and become better with attracting women, and you'll see that gaming this girl is just like gaming any other girl...

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Two words: Carpe Diem

How can i get better in gaming girls?

Complements, kino, teasing, some negging = success!
Just talking, being aware of her problems, talking about your life problems, being negative all the time etc = fail.

I don't mean you shouldn't do the 2º point (tho avoid negative things! and also dont talk about your actual problems to girls), but the 1º point is the rule #1 of seduction! (meh you have some other things but i don't want to give you all the details because you have to effort on this! Also these are the must important i might say)

Also you can be friendly and get girls, being friendly allows you to get more deep into people's bobbles (it's a metaphor for: enter their personal space and life) because you don't show yourself as threatening.

But getting back to the topic, why should she accepted your invitation, you did no shit to seduce her, she might be a flirt person without any interest (this explains the IOIs). Or you just saw her touching her hair and though about Mystery, hell it doesn't work that way!
When a person is flirty by their genetics (i wouldn't say genetics but you got my point) you have to take advantage on that, which i think, you didn't!

At the beginning of this "PUA step by step" you'll have lot of shit results and a few but awesome results, if you continue being what you are meh maybe you'll have luck, and i hope your luck wouldn't weigh more than your unsuccessful live at the moment (yeh, keep way from fat girls!)!
Don't get me wrong, I'm just spicy with my comments!

Well you have to change who you are, i had to do the same, it's hard and I'm still in progress but when you get results you'll see your life getting better!
And yeh (!!!) sometimes you'll get hard times like any other human being, it's part of the progress!

Also, please, don't read this PUA stuff and practice on your girl friends, because it doesn't work! I'm sick of saying this but, ok, I'll tell it again: If you do this, you have to change how you are and the persons that already know you wouldn't accept that and you'll think that you are failing but truly you might be doing the right thing! So if you have the knowledge just use it on girls that you don't know because they'll accept it thinking that you are a touchy man without fears, otherwise (your actual friends) they'll think that you become different and they automatically reject you! (Personal experience!!)

Oh, and don't waste too much time reading e-books, search on youtube and torrents you'll find a lot of videos, keep it from there, it's less time consumer and more interactive : ) and when you want to focus on a particular topic then download a ebook but don't waste to much on reading and not doing shit! It's like study computer science without touching a computer!

P.S. Did you see that I've made a terrible comment about your life and you didn't get mad, see this shit works! : ) Best of luck my friend!

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Gotta put da cream!

Thanks for the reply mate!

I dont think that she was being fliry, i believe she is a very shy girl and dont do much. She never goes out, or drink etc. It felt to me like that she was interested, but i blew it by playing to safe and doing stupid stuff that i realy i regret.

I want to better my game, so i dont make mistakes like that in the future.

I understand that you have to be seductive, but i am not very comfortable being that. I dont know why.

Do you have any tips on where i can start, or where i should start?

If you know new girls take advantage on that, trust me, bla bla it's hard bla bla, it's not, they get along well with it, they don't fear you and think you are a creeper! Well if you do it with you actual knowledge you might become one, but don't worry man! Just see how masters are doing it and them mimic it!
You have to create comfort at any step you take, for example first i touch girls with excuses, then i touch them because i want to and they don't creep out! It's a gradual step by step until you get sex (like the final goal)
Now you know why this is called "a game", because actually it is, you have rules, you have objectives each level you achieve, when you lose you actually lose.

You have to start from study this first, and then you have to make it happen somehow!
But don't think too much about the future, now you have to live the present!
When you study this (take 1~2weeks to read about this) then come back and do that question, if i see it i'll reply to it.
I don't want to make you confused right now, do it one step by step!

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Gotta put da cream!