Hey Guys,
It's me, Kevin! Just wanna thank you for your tips so far! I'm learning a lot, but I have a huge problem when trying to attract women. Can you help me? Sorry if it's a little long, but if you could reply, then that would be great!

Here's my question:
When I look back a kid, I was a really shy kid growing up. My parents were strict, and didn't give me much freedom. As a kid, I liked to draw, and although I was short, I was decently good looking and athletic, and I mostly talked to my two closest friends at the time. Since middle school, I had tons of problems with girls! In 7th grade, I suffered a brutal rejection that the entire class knew about. This was the first time I told a girl I liked her, and it lead to me getting made fun of a lot for everything i do, and caused me to question if i would become alone for the rest of my life. In 8th grade, I got made fun of for being the shortest boy in the 8th grade (5'0 at the time), so I hid my feelings. In high school, I got taller overtime, but I still was shy around girls/ new people. I played football in high school, but wasn't a superstar, so i didn't get noticed. i had trouble getting a prom date, and in the end, although she was cute, my date used me just to hang out w/ her friends. By the end of high school, I felt like all the bonds I made w/ my friends at the time were broken...

I'm gonna be a sophomore in college right now, and freshman year, I used to play football, but I was a benchwarmer, so I'm practically invisible around girls, unlike my other teammates. I commute at home (because of mom and dad), so I don't have much chances to talk to girls around campus. I also don't have a car, so I have to get picked up by my parents. I try to say hi to girls, but I usually don't know what to say around them, plus my friends from the football team gave me the usual "girls won't talk to me until I become more popular". My confidence around women went down the tanks. I'm good looking, 5'9, pretty in shape/muscular built, smart, and have very good grades, but I don't know how to communicate to new people, especially girls, cuz girls have higher social expectations than guys. I also got cut from the football team during spring camp because the coach wanted a smaller roster, and I was terrible compared to the other runningbacks, especially the 3 time all american Nate Bradford (not his real name for privacy reasons), and becoming a football star was my only chance to attract women on campus. Also, now that I am no longer on the football team, the connections I made with my former teammates (weak connections) will be completly severed. If I was a loner with the football team as my only acquaintances, how will I make friends now?

So here's my question. How to I talk to girls so that they find me interesting/ want to go out with me? Thank you for everything you have done so far! I am getting better, but this problem is why I'm here today. And thank you for reading this!

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I'm still really new here, and I can't offer the advise you're looking for with women, but I completely get where you're coming from. I played a lot of sports, football being one of them, and I felt like the connections I made with my team mates were pretty weak. Surprisingly, I'm a youth football coach now. I freaking love the sport, and I try to make their experience better by encouraging friendships. Still, I don't think I made real friends until I started trying out other things that interested me. Sports are great, but they're not the only thing in the world. So as far as making friends goes, try to follow your interests and talk with people who share those interests. Seek them out online or using your college. Then just do fun things with those people, aside from those interests. I've got a river tube, and I invite people to go tubing with me. It's fun, and people like it. Good luck!

There are often lots of other extra curricular activities at colleges. I'd know since I was the president of a group at college. Women love these types of organizations. Your school may have a list of registered student organizations. Join one that interests you, and introduce yourself to some ladies. Ask them why they got involved. The key to being a good conversationalist is to listen and ask interesting questions. Keep the focus on her, not you.

hi bro. i currently moved to a college. tonight is gonna be my forth night in here. On the second night i got so drunk and badly injured myself and was sent to the local hospital in an ambulence. This was how i got really popular after the next morning coming back to the college from the hospital. It was really weird. But yh, i'm like a celebrity here...(self mocking).
Back to the topic. I dont see any problem in you. just telling ya, i'm 5'5, Asian, i don't play any sports and i have no facial hair and plus, im not even a native english speaker. But the point is college is the easiest place for you to have fun and play around with girls. (90% of the girls who live in college are sluts) So be loud, be fun and be yourself!

college is like a fucking playground, at least for me. Social proof is key, soo key. I am in a top fraternity on campus and bitches just love us, they wanna say "Yea im going to the kappa sig date party" or "yea i fucked him, hes in kappa sig." Girls care so much about what their reputations are, especially in a highly social environment like college. Associate with some cool dudes and immediately girls will begin to be more attracted to you. After that? Build some confidence bro. keep going to the gym, getting good grades, and build friendship with some bros. Girls will radiate to you if you are confidence and enjoy being in your own skin

Pretty much what Bundy has said. You have to be in the limelight. Word will spread around and people you never met before will know your name. Social proof= girls.

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