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 Post subject: Getting back an ex
PostPosted: Sun Nov 23, 2014 5:00 pm 
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Let's say enough time has passed where the slate has been wiped clean. Any particular ways you go about this?

Is it just same approach as before? Seduce and go from there? Or do other measures have to be taken into account


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 Post subject: Re: Getting back an ex
PostPosted: Sun Nov 23, 2014 5:44 pm 
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Never really do the chasing. It will quickly create power differentials in the dynamic. Put yourself in her vicinity or circle, but don't contact her. Let the woman do the choosing. That's the frame you want to come from.

When she does, slowly reciprocate interest and reward her for her efforts.

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 Post subject: Re: Getting back an ex
PostPosted: Sun Nov 23, 2014 6:49 pm 
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If you're still thinking about getting back an ex you're more beta than when things ended. Trick question. If enough time has passed you should have improved yourself and your options.


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 Post subject: Re: Getting back an ex
PostPosted: Sun Nov 23, 2014 7:08 pm 
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I hope you are only talking about fucking her, not getting back together.

Personally, she was the one getting in touch with me a few months after I broke up with my ex. I guess it doesn't make a huge difference if you initiate contact if you feel like you can handle it emotionally tho.

Just meet her, act as always and... Get her into bed like you always used to? Not many things easier than that, really. During the duration of your meeting, just assume you are together, but, for Christ's sake, do NOT get emotionally involved.

As in for the specifics of estalishing a meeting, first of all contact her and see how she responds.

Also, who broke up with whom? Why?

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 Post subject: Re: Getting back an ex
PostPosted: Mon Nov 24, 2014 2:57 pm 
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Let's say enough time has passed where the slate has been wiped clean. Any particular ways you go about this?

Is it just same approach as before? Seduce and go from there? Or do other measures have to be taken into account

What does 'slate has been wiped clean' mean?

If it means you want her back because you fucked around on her and she's now forgiven you, then start slow. Old friends connecting. "How about a drink to catch up" and then escalate.

If YOU dumped HER and you want her back (I'd think about why you want her back... for starters, but you're going to do what you're going to do) - then game like normal, I'd say. You could go the drink approach, or if you know she's interested, invite her over to chill and for a movie.


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