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 Post subject: When to stop texting
PostPosted: Thu Jul 11, 2013 12:23 pm 
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Long story short, I went out on a day 2 with this girl, things went well and we have been texting since then. However, she is going back home for a while and I'd rather just end the conversation and pick it up later, once she is back. Should I just let the conversation die away or should I come up with an excuse?

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 Post subject: Re: When to stop texting
PostPosted: Thu Jul 11, 2013 2:47 pm 
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Long story short, I went out on a day 2 with this girl, things went well and we have been texting since then. However, she is going back home for a while and I'd rather just end the conversation and pick it up later, once she is back. Should I just let the conversation die away or should I come up with an excuse?

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What you mean about let the conversation die? You should never let the conversation die, what you can\should do (it's up to you) is: you can stop texting her for awhile and then text her again.
But tell me, if she's interested already and you are having a good time texting her why should you stop texting her? This will kill your comfort!

Mate this PUA stuff about negging and show no interest it's just at the beginning, after awhile when you see that the moment is right you have to start to show interest, otherwise she wouldn't feel interest\comfort.

Show no interest is used to create comfort with her around you, you don't get laid by that.

So you have to show some interest first, like a little, which it can be done by a complement about her, then you can start to do that (create huge gaps between texting), but avoid to do that over and over again otherwise she might get pissed of and stop talking to you! That's why you should get the things tuned, never over do things!

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 Post subject: Re: When to stop texting
PostPosted: Thu Jul 11, 2013 4:37 pm 
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I generally just use texting for logistics. I don't like to have conversations over text with women i am interested in, I don't see much point. Build the attraction in person and build anticipation by not wasting all your good clever lines over text.

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 Post subject: Re: When to stop texting
PostPosted: Thu Jul 11, 2013 5:42 pm 
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I would just not text her for a while when she is gone, then when she comes back, you have the perfect excuse to start talking to her again. Time to catch up, grab some food, watch a movie at my place, then bang ;)


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 Post subject: Re: When to stop texting
PostPosted: Thu Jul 11, 2013 5:57 pm 
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Stop being her texting buddy. Be a Man, set up dates, and get laid.

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 Post subject: Re: When to stop texting
PostPosted: Thu Jul 11, 2013 7:10 pm 
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I just had to do this recently with one of my FB who went away for a month but just wouldn't stop calling me and texting me all day.

I just texted her this " Hey, lets just pick up this whole thing when you get back. Look distance is hard work ;) "

She kindly agreed, but texted em again two days later.

What can you do?

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