Can't drink: how to meet women?



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PostPosted: Tue Jul 09, 2013 6:52 am 
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Hi all,

Although I've had some success in the past using online methods, recently that has tapered off and I'm kind of fed up with that avenue. However, I have a serious stumbling block when it comes to pick up - I can't drink alcohol. I mean, I can, I wouldn't die from it, but it would cause me so much pain that it isn't worth the effort (acid reflux, and yes, I know just about every possible way of treating it and no, it doesn't cure it. I don't want the surgery). Does this mean I have to stick to day game? To be honest, I don't like bars, anyway, but this does make things difficult.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 09, 2013 10:28 am 
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I also do not drink alcohol at all, and I've to admit that it makes things a little more difficult.

I used to hate bars and clubs because besides what the community wants to make you believe, most people go there just to drink. Not to pick up, not to meet anybody but just to drink and nowadays over here have drunk sms's conversations while drinking.

But I learn to feel comfortable in those environments and have fun in them... Just I would not recommend to go there just to pick up, you'll get rejected a lot and as far as I have seen and experience regardless of all the advises that PUAs give about not taking rejection personally, that there is not such thing as failure just learning, etc. etc. Every rejection feels bad, drains your energy, make you doubt about yourself and hurts your confidence, your mood, and so in a pretty short time you'll want to go home and forget about the place.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 09, 2013 10:45 am 
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There is no connection between drinking and women both different.You can drink by your choice why you not drink..Just enjoy your life dude..check my site in my profile link i am sure you will enjoy it.


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 09, 2013 3:17 pm 
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why not drink?

1- is expensive
2- is highly addictive, yes all drinkers say the opposite but once you drink you can never ever be in a social gathering feeling good and comfortable without alcohol
3- bad for the health
4- for me the most valuable thing in life is my awareness, and it affects your awareness
5- changes your behavior
6- alcohol depresses people, makes you happy for a while, but when the alcohol leaves your system your level of happiness decreases below to what it was before drinking. (are you talking about enjoying life, well once you drink unless you keep having alcohol in your blood system during your whole life, you'll enjoy it less)
7- I find it really sad to put in the hands of some substance, this case alcohol, important things in my life such as my well being, my comfort, my confidence and social skills.
8- It was really painful for me as a kid to watch my parents drunk, so I made a promise that I'll never hurt my love ones in such way.
9- Is kind of sad to see that my father now as a grown up can only participate in a chat with friends after 1 beer.
10- My long term dream is to spend my time after retirement, running races and trying to break world records of my age group at that time.
11- You've no idea how good it makes me feel to see my high school colleagues looking like grownups, with bellies, pains, and having problems when climbing the stairs, when I'm still confused sometimes as a teenager and my physical condition and strength becomes better with each day that passes.
12- I wait the whole week to enjoy my Saturday long run, without alcohol I can party all night long take the first train back home, put my running shoes and start running for 25km, and then sleep, while the friends I go with and drink have troubles to stay conscious all night and next day can't do shit.
13- During the last snowboard trip that I did with some friends I was able to party every night and snowboard 12 hours a day, while my friends who drank could snowboard at most 2 hours.
14- I'm happy and willing to party every night, my friends who drink they say things like:"no I'm not planning to drink this week, so I won't go out"
15- I've lost 3 friends because of drinking and driving
16- Drinking is involved in at least 99% of the fist fights.
17- if alcohol was discovered today, it would classify as a class A drug. Go to any underground club where people abuse of all type of chemicals that you can imagine, and you'll see how the drunk ones are the ones that act in the most aggressive and stupid way.

I can really go on all day... but all the arguments I can give most probably will just bounce in the believe that "drinking is cool and that done in moderation causes no harm at all"

Everybody has its own body and mind and can do whatever they want with it, (as long as it does not affect others), it's just that in my vision of the world really I do not see how "drinking" fits in the "just enjoy life" category. In my vision of the world drinking fits in the "I'm cool because I'm escaping from reality and reveling against the system, by consuming the precise drug that is enslaving me to it."


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PostPosted: Tue Jul 09, 2013 3:26 pm 
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um. this hardly if at all matters. Most women don't care. Only on one on one dates some women feel weird being the only one drinking but just tell them its no big deal that you won't judge them ;)

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PostPosted: Tue Jul 09, 2013 5:14 pm 
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No way bro!


I never drink when I go out to bars and club alone to meet women because I'll always end up saying something that isn't "Me". I only drink if i go out to have a good time with friends.

Alcohol actually add a grey line around your aura so staying away from it while your out at night meeting women will instantly make you stand out from all the drunk guys hanging around you. There will be a slight subconscious " there is something different about that guy, idk what it is" going on with women. And they actually be coming up to you; if you're having a good time of course.

An external substance can never limit you to anything man, thats kind of silly ;)

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