| Hey guys, me asking in the General Questions again.
A while back I posted about a specific girl who I tried to get, and eventually got. The situation run down real quick:
Met her last year in the Summer, had an incredible connection and attraction, went on 4 dates, but didn't have sex. I ended it and stayed in contact with her via SMS for a YEAR.
Met her again a few weeks ago. 3rd time we had dinner at my place and had sex. She came over 2 days later and we had sex again.
She's now in London until September 20th. I am going to London myself for a week on the 15th of July. Before she left I told her I'm coming, and she said she'll be "waiting for me".
So to elaborate now. We have an incredible connection and like I said in my last post this girl and I get on incredibly well and I know that I have to try make her mine no matter what to get this clearance. This peace. She has already met my mom LOL since I live at her place here in Vienna, and the night we had sex we all had a super long conversation after wards. She was incredibly chilled and comfortable about it.
Anyway. We text quite a bit still, however she's super busy since she's got an internship and she's, well, in London. At times we go 2 days without texting, but she initiates again and then we get back on it, yet even then it's limited to something around 3 texts a day, but texts are playful and fall into my frame and they're sometimes affectionate. Has sent me little <3 hearts and stuff in some texts. I have kept from being needy with my texts by ending them, yet also have shown that I obviously think about her. Like it has been for the past year.
So that's the situation right now. However when I go to London on the 15th for a week I want to seal the deal completely. I want her to be my girlfriend, and yes it will be a Long-Distance. Let's give it a shot. I don't want to hear your opinions about whether or not this is a good idea, but I am truly, honestly, sincerely asking for your help on how to do this. This girl has done quite a bit for me already. Since I do film and photography she told her colleagues I'm a good photographer and got me a gig at her non-profit event.
I really do need your help here. I have a friend who has successfully made a chick his gf and they have a long-distance (see each other quite a bit throughout the year) - he's good with girls himself and when he told me that he straight up flew over to her and asked her out I thought that's AFC, but then it dawned on me that he went for what he wanted relentlessly. So I am actually considering telling her that I'd like her to be my girlfriend when I'm over there. We've known each other for a year, the sex is amazing, and we still have incredible attraction and connection.
So community, I really do need your help again, I've never entered this territory before, and I hope I finally can because this is what I truly want.
Thank you for reading and for any advice you may have.
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